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10 years ago @ Paging Dr. NerdLove - The Trouble With Onlin... · 8 replies · +3 points
Free/cheap dates are usually the most fun or interesting because they are usually more novel activities. Free night at the museum, movies in the park, city walking tours, book readings, lectures, concerts in parks, picnics, farmers markets, art shows/craft fairs, etc. can usually be done for under $10 per person (would have been $5 but picnics can be more expensive)
10 years ago @ Paging Dr. NerdLove - The Trouble With Onlin... · 0 replies · +1 points
Of course it does help that he has a lot of cool activities and experiences that he shares with the types of women he wants to meet. That has to be a bigger factor than any OLD techniques.
10 years ago @ Paging Dr. NerdLove - How To Be Charming · 1 reply · +15 points
10 years ago @ Paging Dr. NerdLove - How Badly Do You Want It? · 6 replies · +6 points
10 years ago @ Paging Dr. NerdLove - How Badly Do You Want It? · 0 replies · +4 points
I have an uncle (as I do for most situations) who pretty much has had casual relationships his whole life and is content. Now that he is going on 60 he has a few steady casual partners. Honestly it is a model that I think would suit more people, but folks are hung up on having a relationship.
10 years ago @ Paging Dr. NerdLove - How Badly Do You Want It? · 0 replies · +8 points
10 years ago @ Paging Dr. NerdLove - Redefining Failure · 1 reply · +1 points
You use them to separate one cow out of the herd :)
10 years ago @ Paging Dr. NerdLove - Redefining Failure · 3 replies · +4 points
Classic example. When I was a kid I picked up this stray horse and tried to train it. I spent months getting kicked, bucked off, trampled, bitten etc.. I was dying from frustration because my grandpa said if I couldn't break him I'd have to let him go. We couldn't afford a horse that couldn't work. My auntie took me aside and told me my mistake was treating this horse like a domesticated (if untrained) horse. This was a wild horse and had to be approached as such. I was so frustrated by my failure that I didn't see that I missed the path. I'd locked into a pattern that was failing but was so frustrated that I could not see that what I was doing was the problem. Long story never ending, I finally broke him enough that a good rider could handle him and he is an amazing cutting horse.
10 years ago @ Paging Dr. NerdLove - Where Do You Get Your ... · 2 replies · +5 points
10 years ago @ Paging Dr. NerdLove - Where Do You Get Your ... · 0 replies · +4 points