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8 years ago @ Paging Dr. NerdLove - How To Approach Women ... · 0 replies · +5 points

yes if they are reading, but I know I am not foccused on the book and I stop and look around for a bit I don't think it is rude if someone says "hey what are you reading?"

if you are reading and doing so consistantly yes...

I am just saying reading like most things is nuanced...

if they are really foccused on what they are doing don't interupt them... If they arent really foccused and might look up and around a bit you might try for a small opener and if they arent into it then leave them alone

8 years ago @ Paging Dr. NerdLove - How To Approach Women ... · 2 replies · +6 points

I really honestly think reading falls under what the doc said. If the person is really foccused on what they are doiing (reading) leave them alone. I mean if they are looking up every so often then you might proceed with caution and ask them about what they are reading.

I personally love books... so if it looked like someone was reading but lightly and looking up if we caught eyes I would want to chat with them to see what they were reading if nothing else it might be something I would like to read.

But as I said it would really depend on how foccused they were on the book. If they werent too invested I would ask. It is about reading nuances

8 years ago @ Paging Dr. NerdLove - Avoid These 5 Dating D... · 0 replies · +14 points

it's not only that. conversations like sexy time is give and take. If in a conversation someone isn't holding their end of the conversation its not a good sign for chemestry neither is the opposite where they are taking the whole spotllight. If you are having a good two way conversation where they can hold their end but make sure they want to engage with the person they are talking to so they enjoy talking to them too... i think that is something that translates to other areas

8 years ago @ Paging Dr. NerdLove - Avoid These 5 Dating D... · 2 replies · +10 points

I can usually tell if smeone will be bad in bed by how they talk to you, in general conversation. if you arent connecting in a regualar conversation ... how is the connection in bed going to be?

8 years ago @ Paging Dr. NerdLove - The Man\'s Guide On Ho... · 0 replies · +5 points

For the life of me I don't know how anyone can liek teh smell of axe. That is just my oppinion. it gives me a headache when I smell it.

8 years ago @ Paging Dr. NerdLove - Wednesday Open Thread:... · 0 replies · +3 points

that was cute... you should check this one out

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tHvExOg4NI0

8 years ago @ Paging Dr. NerdLove - Wednesday Open Thread:... · 0 replies · +1 points

I have taking a shining to the podcast stuff mom never old you which has videos on youtube and a podcast series on howstuffworks.com....
http://www.stuffmomnevertoldyou.com/

Also the stuff you missed in history class is good too
http://www.missedinhistory.com/

8 years ago @ Paging Dr. NerdLove - Ask Dr. NerdLove: My B... · 5 replies · +4 points

what I was saying is... I would be more concerned if there was questionable content in the stuff he was watching rather than the fact that he has it or watches it wor what ever.

8 years ago @ Paging Dr. NerdLove - Ask Dr. NerdLove: My B... · 7 replies · +14 points

On the porn issue... I don't have a problem with people watching porn....

I have a problem would be very cautious with people who watch certain types of porn... per say like kiddie porn... or ones that fetishize abusive behavior....

I think its perfectly normal to explore sexual desire porn but there are some very problematic stuff out there in that regard at the same time.

8 years ago @ Paging Dr. NerdLove - Your Attitude Controls... · 0 replies · +4 points

I am not exactly sure what my problem is... maybe it is attitude, but I have always tried to fill my life with things that make me happy, and having a relationship (a good one that is) would be nice, but i been a little off put off by what I have found out there that I am content being single. Plus the extra baggage of dating with a chronic illness complicates things. That I have just been trying to get out and try new experiences in general but not solely look for a date... but when i slow down a bit it feels like that is what I shuld be doing at almost 29...

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