en-us https://www.intensedebate.com/users/530088 Comments by ilovemyson http://mssinglemama.com/2008/05/02/should-i-leave-my-husband/#IDComment21713685 I did it. I fill out my paper work, I faxed it to my lawyer...I now have 2 weeks until I sign my papers and my husband gets served. I feel excited for a fresh new start..and terrified that I am making the wrong decision..but this has been weighing heavy on my heart for over 7 months now..it HAS to be the right thing to do...right? I just want to do whats best for my son. If anyone has any advice on the best way to go about this, especially telling my husband, please tell me! I need all the support and encouragement I can get! Thank you. Sun, 17 May 2009 17:44:50 +0000 http://mssinglemama.com/2008/05/02/should-i-leave-my-husband/#IDComment21713685 http://mssinglemama.com/2008/05/02/should-i-leave-my-husband/#IDComment20990863 *Please Help Me!* I am 23, I have been married to my husband for 2 years in June, and together with him for 3. We have a 13 mo old son together who is by far the greatest gift of all, and the most precious human being I know. I have been unhappy for 7 months now with my husband. To sum it up: my husband believes because he works full time and I stay home to raise our son, I should do everything around the house and he shouldn't have to do anything. He does not think he has anger issues (which he absolutely does and I can name several people who agree with me)...he does not believe he is verbally, mentally, and emotionally abusive (again..totally is) ...he is constantly telling me I am the one with the problem, I am a liar, I constantly push his buttons and cause fights which results in him blowing up at me, etc etc.. I love my husband, but I am terrified of him. I just want to be happy, and most importantly I want my son to be happy. I have been debating on the big D word for some time now, and I am aware of the fact that I do not have a job at the moment, but I have a huge incredible support system to back me up. Please tell me what to do! Thu, 7 May 2009 18:36:12 +0000 http://mssinglemama.com/2008/05/02/should-i-leave-my-husband/#IDComment20990863