en-us https://www.intensedebate.com/users/757474 Comments by goldenboybrodie https://www.racerelationsproject.org/2010/04/women__trashed/#IDComment68750416 I am really happy that you found yourself and realize what’s important I think your story is for a lot a girls to look at in this world. A lot of you ladies go there whole life on depression which really is not good for their health depression in my eyes that causes more weight gain and it can get out of hand really fast if they don’t control it that’s why I stress to do your best to stay healthy and if you are made a certain way so be it be happy no matter what because your heart don’t have a appearance but what you do in life will show and somebody that also has a good heart will see that Sun, 18 Apr 2010 22:15:40 +0000 https://www.racerelationsproject.org/2010/04/women__trashed/#IDComment68750416 https://www.racerelationsproject.org/2010/04/women__trashed/#IDComment68749425 Yeah I understand why you said that men want nothing less than average shape and I have to agree with that is true now a day’s a guy like a little to hold on to nothing skinny times has changed I remember my grandmother use to say thin was in back in the day now butt and breast play a big role and I have to say I am on that side as well I do like a women that I can have something to hold but to me appearance isn’t everything if I can talk to you and have fun I’m will be more into that but on a regular not sixe does matter and its sad to say Sun, 18 Apr 2010 22:05:16 +0000 https://www.racerelationsproject.org/2010/04/women__trashed/#IDComment68749425 https://www.racerelationsproject.org/2010/04/women__trashed/#IDComment68748420 Yes the play in class I thought it made a lot of sense but I have to say its sucks that I think girls across the nation are not happy on what god gave them I think all women across the world should be happy on how god made them and how they should know every girl is not going to have the big boobs and nice plump butt. Which they should know if their butt is flat be happy and if you boobs are not big enough so what it counts on what’s inside not outside but every girls want to be the pretties and the best shape in the world and that where they go wrong at then they want to get these surgeries that messes up their bodies even more then what they want. Their so many things that can go wrong with those surgeries it’s not even funny but hey women these days don’t listen they see all the stars on TV with these makeovers and they are thinking hey if they can do it I can do it. Which little do they know every plastic sergeant isn’t the best they make mistakes as well and that’s when things get ugly? Also you have the long term consequences with the breast cancer and things of that kind which it all sums up at the end to be a big hassle which come out to be more problems then what you need. I really think women across the nation need to listen on what’s inside and know somebody out there in the world would love you for you no matter their shape and size once they get that I think everyone will be ok. This media these days get a hold of everything and they expect everyone to be perfect in every way possible if they don’t think that certain famous person is holding up to what they want they do everything in their power to bring that person down and what the media know that stuff hurt people in the inside so what do they do they really take on what the media say and try to change their appearance more than they should and all of that just fall down to every other girl in the world. Man I tell you this world is screwed up big time the more and more I go to this class I learn more and more on how this world we try and bring you down its kind of getting on my nerves big time. TO ALL WOMEN IN THE WORLD GOD MADE YOU BEAUTIFUL AND DIFFERENT FROM ALL OTHERS TAKE ADVANTAGE OF IT AND IF ANY GUY OR MEADIA HAVE A PROBLEM WITH IT F them really Sun, 18 Apr 2010 21:54:37 +0000 https://www.racerelationsproject.org/2010/04/women__trashed/#IDComment68748420 https://www.racerelationsproject.org/2010/04/what-are-we-doing-here-really__trashed/#IDComment68392983 Yeah I agree with you when I sat foot in Sam class I was like this guys is just going to give us on what he thinks about everything and not really speaking the truth but as I looked at it he wasn’t trying to do that at all he wanted us to really think about what is going on in our world instead of being closed minded but open to everything that is going on in other words open our eyes and see the truth what lies between the lines. I say the Sam I really learned so much from this class and sat back and looked at how allot of the stuff I’ve been taught could be wrong and that’s the thing that’s not a good thing in my book Fri, 16 Apr 2010 16:24:56 +0000 https://www.racerelationsproject.org/2010/04/what-are-we-doing-here-really__trashed/#IDComment68392983 https://www.racerelationsproject.org/2010/04/what-are-we-doing-here-really__trashed/#IDComment68392204 The big picture in my eyes of race relations is to not judge and not look past anybody because of their race but everybody should be treated the same no matter what. The big picture at the end of us coming together fighting for what’s right and really helping each other and just think about what is really going on in our world as Sam say we have no idea what is really going on in today’s world with race we only see the outside of or society we need to dig deep and really find out what is really going on in our world not just our community’s but world and as I learned from Sam this world will bring you down fast and with no problem. Fri, 16 Apr 2010 16:18:55 +0000 https://www.racerelationsproject.org/2010/04/what-are-we-doing-here-really__trashed/#IDComment68392204 https://www.racerelationsproject.org/2010/04/this-is-totally-off-the-hook__trashed/#IDComment66261648 Yeah I have to agree with you I also think the media is a big part of violence across the world to me media tricks and can do good and evil. That’s why I said all this technology can bring us up or down and off of this video it brings us low technology is getting so big that it’s bringing to life rape victims what I mean with that best believe with this game being out people are going to look at rape on a different scale and I predict rape to go up if this game reach the right hands. I pray this will be a whole different outcome really I do Tue, 6 Apr 2010 19:46:17 +0000 https://www.racerelationsproject.org/2010/04/this-is-totally-off-the-hook__trashed/#IDComment66261648 https://www.racerelationsproject.org/2010/04/this-is-totally-off-the-hook__trashed/#IDComment66260451 Yeah I agree with you a 100 percent with this game getting into a child hands is all it takes I cannot stress more about how this can affect them man I wish this game vanish and vanish quick because I just hate to see what this will do in the hands of those kids. Yeah as you said what if it falls in a young girl hands man oh man what will she think like will she take to the game like well this happen all the time and everywhere so I guess this ok in some type of way if they make a game about it who know what a 12 year old would think if she see this all I know it’s not good Tue, 6 Apr 2010 19:37:12 +0000 https://www.racerelationsproject.org/2010/04/this-is-totally-off-the-hook__trashed/#IDComment66260451 https://www.racerelationsproject.org/2010/04/this-is-totally-off-the-hook__trashed/#IDComment66258843 This is really disturbing but I really not in shock of the Japanese to let game like this come up because they have a long history of putting any type of game out there on the market because of money. Let’s face it this tied up as money as well. I just can’t believe really there is a rape game out in stores and online let some little kids get of hold of this bye, bye to our future of the minds like I do any body have a heart or mind about the kids when they make game like this. Do they really understand that kids can look at this and say its fun like wow dude I rape a girl in a train station and got big points for doing that. These games can really affect a kids mind in many different ways. I can see the game was about being a cop and trying to stop women from being rape but to do it it’s just chaos and too much for me to even think about. It should really be a stop to this but the government won’t say anything because they know game in their country brings in crazy amount of money and believe it or not they are very much tied up into it because Japanese makes all the new in hottest games even for the United States. On a serious note I hope somebody don’t stop until they get this resolve because this will also eventually affect us as a country as well. Reason why I say that because it is very easy to download just like the people in the video did and also kids these days are learning very fast how to do it. As you can see I am very concerned about the kids because when something like this is made all I can think about is the kids and on how easily they can see it. I’m very glad the media got a hold of this maybe the government seeing this is wrong but at the same time they can be as if this our country and we do as we please I don’t know how this may shape up but I just hope the best for this to be taking care of because if they lets games like this to be set out this can only get worst very quick and spread rapidly. Only time will tell on how quick this will be resolved but will it be resolved is a question. Is sad that it’s a possibility this may not be resolved but they really need to look how this may affect allot of people. Always remember MONEY IS THE KEY Tue, 6 Apr 2010 19:24:07 +0000 https://www.racerelationsproject.org/2010/04/this-is-totally-off-the-hook__trashed/#IDComment66258843 https://www.racerelationsproject.org/2010/03/if-men-could-menstruate__trashed/#IDComment65691367 Yeah I sit at this and ask myself to why men don’t have periods and why don’t us men talk about this as much. Well first I would like to say I hate talking about it because stuff like that make me sick to my stomach its true I can’t lie but like Imagine guys having blood come from the penis not a good look. It’s a reason why god made it like that. I know allot of people say yes its normal but to me nasty In several different ways. For all you women out there I half to commend you on what you go through went those things 12 times a years I know it’s not easy but hey that life and I wonder why don’t males don’t have any type of a cycle to go through which sucks big time. In a way that lets you know how powerful a women can be and what she goes through. If a man can have a period I don’t think we can go through it I know I would hell no like man that’s just crazy and those cramps it look like some time my girlfriend will die sorry buddy can’t do it but again women was born to go through those things in a certain time in their life. I just can’t really seeing men saying guys I’m not feeling too well I can’t go out tonight cramps got me beat what kind of stuff is that of hearing a man say that. No she also asked the question if men can have a cycle will tampons be free I don’t really know how to answer that question but I would think so I really don’t know why women half to pay for those type of things today all women need that in their life and it really do suck that they half to pay for it, anyway yes I think it should be free even right now because it’s a need for any woman out there in the world. This is a question we will not get of why woman have a cycle and men don’t only god know the true story behind that I just go along with it and ask no question. Another thing I will like to point out I will always think men will not talk about this allot because it’s not in their nature to be worried about it or think about it only if they half to. Again I would like to commend all women across the world because I know it’s not easy at all. Sat, 3 Apr 2010 07:46:20 +0000 https://www.racerelationsproject.org/2010/03/if-men-could-menstruate__trashed/#IDComment65691367 https://www.racerelationsproject.org/2010/03/if-men-could-menstruate__trashed/#IDComment65696047 Yeah I sit at this and ask myself to why men don’t have periods and why don’t us men talk about this as much. Well first I would like to say I hate talking about it because stuff like that make me sick to my stomach its true I can’t lie but like Imagine guys having blood come from the penis not a good look. It’s a reason why god made it like that. I know allot of people say yes its normal but to me nasty In several different ways. For all you women out there I half to commend you on what you go through went those things 12 times a years I know it’s not easy but hey that life and I wonder why don’t males don’t have any type of a cycle to go through which sucks big time. In a way that lets you know how powerful a women can be and what she goes through. If a man can have a period I don’t think we can go through it I know I would hell no like man that’s just crazy and those cramps it look like some time my girlfriend will die sorry buddy can’t do it but again women was born to go through those things in a certain time in their life. I just can’t really seeing men saying guys I’m not feeling too well I can’t go out tonight cramps got me beat what kind of stuff is that of hearing a man say that. No she also asked the question if men can have a cycle will tampons be free I don’t really know how to answer that question but I would think so I really don’t know why women half to pay for those type of things today all women need that in their life and it really do suck that they half to pay for it, anyway yes I think it should be free even right now because it’s a need for any woman out there in the world. This is a question we will not get of why woman have a cycle and men don’t only god know the true story behind that I just go along with it and ask no question. Another thing I will like to point out I will always think men will not talk about this allot because it’s not in their nature to be worried about it or think about it only if they half to. Again I would like to commend all women across the world because I know it’s not easy at all. Sat, 3 Apr 2010 03:46:20 +0000 https://www.racerelationsproject.org/2010/03/if-men-could-menstruate__trashed/#IDComment65696047 https://www.racerelationsproject.org/2010/04/what-if-we-got-rid-of-welfare__trashed/#IDComment65695181 yeah you right I would hate to see more and more homeless people on the street because by cutting off welfare will defiantly will do that I hate it also seeing children in our very own country starving wondering how and when I'm going to eat which really blows me. The government know more and more people need help every year that's why it so hard to turn off the system but really in my eyes it more help needed out there and its true. Welfare can only do so much but for some people it’s the only way to survive. I wish things will be more different these days with just the economy it’s self but even before it went bad stuff was still bad with the welfare and to me it will get worst change need to hurry up and come (the system that is) Sat, 3 Apr 2010 03:42:56 +0000 https://www.racerelationsproject.org/2010/04/what-if-we-got-rid-of-welfare__trashed/#IDComment65695181 https://www.racerelationsproject.org/2010/04/what-if-we-got-rid-of-welfare__trashed/#IDComment65693349 Cutting off welfare is not good in my eyes I feel allot of family need this to survive because me seeing these different type of family growing up let me see that the money really does help in any little way possible yes I know allot of people try to down play welfare benefits but take for instance single mother 4 mouths to feed and bringing home less than 8,000 a years and to be honest is so many family that have it worst then that and its sad to say it’s true because I use to have friends not wanting to go home to know it was no food in the house and couldn’t stand to look in their mom and dad face and to have that helpless look on their face Sat, 3 Apr 2010 03:35:17 +0000 https://www.racerelationsproject.org/2010/04/what-if-we-got-rid-of-welfare__trashed/#IDComment65693349 https://www.racerelationsproject.org/2010/03/are-whites-the-only-people-willing-to-humiliate-themselves__trashed/#IDComment63614594 Yeah I agree with you on the people uses these show to scam people and just to act a fool to be the next big thing to talk about so the tv stations are getting the money and they are get the few weeks of fame but it all works out for everyone of what they one out of the deal and these damn females do not fall in love they see the money and they see what they can really get out of the deal this is just to get their faces out on that tv screen. But allot of people know people are hungry to try to be noticed so these ABC shows are best for them Tue, 23 Mar 2010 07:42:56 +0000 https://www.racerelationsproject.org/2010/03/are-whites-the-only-people-willing-to-humiliate-themselves__trashed/#IDComment63614594 https://www.racerelationsproject.org/2010/03/are-whites-the-only-people-willing-to-humiliate-themselves__trashed/#IDComment63613789 Yeah you right I think they should mix up the race because love don’t have a face on it but just connecting with that person will say it all not the color of their skin and really I hope ABC is not really racist because it does seem odd all the contestant on them shows be white all the time now that this is pointed out I wonder if they will ever choose other race for the future only time will tell maybe they will change who knows. ABC really try to come up with these new shows and try to get more and more crazy people but again they do seem to be white I’m going to leave it at that for now Tue, 23 Mar 2010 07:34:04 +0000 https://www.racerelationsproject.org/2010/03/are-whites-the-only-people-willing-to-humiliate-themselves__trashed/#IDComment63613789 https://www.racerelationsproject.org/2010/03/are-whites-the-only-people-willing-to-humiliate-themselves__trashed/#IDComment63612399 Well this is a very good question Are whites the only ones to humiliate themselves on TV well to me the question is do these show like the baccalaureate and real word and other shows that connect with that show allow to have allot of black people to cast on the shows. Well the same as she said I can probably count on my hand of how many black people end up on these types of shows. I don’t want to jump to say its racist or anything it can be only white willing to get up there and act a fool because it seem as every time I ask a black person would she or he do they say hell no or just no and they sometime crazy I will never make a fool of myself like that. Makes you think like maybe blacks people really do not want to be made a fool of their selves, which is understandable. With me being black I have to say it is true I even tell myself sometime I would never get on that show to at a foot so I can embarrass myself. As you look on these show these white people are really trying to be seen and don’t matter to be put on blast throughout the whole nation. To me I do think some of these show go by the color of the skin but some don’t. Most of these shows go with the people that are crazy and would get millions of homes watching them every week and it seem to be white people that knows how to do that. I think it all boils down to money and who want to put there selves out there with no problem and most of the time it do be white people which is all good. But don’t forget black people have their own shows as well and there are some black people that would do allot for a TV contract money talk in many ways and if those numbers are right yes I think blacks will also take a more go on it but to me money does not have a skin color at the end of the day everybody want to be seen and also make that money. Which I understand but to bring this to an end I really think whites are not the only to act a fool on tv also blacks because I bet if those type of shows give more blacks opportunity to be on those type of shows you will see the number increase. Tue, 23 Mar 2010 07:18:38 +0000 https://www.racerelationsproject.org/2010/03/are-whites-the-only-people-willing-to-humiliate-themselves__trashed/#IDComment63612399 https://www.racerelationsproject.org/2010/03/women-and-sports__trashed/#IDComment62439623 Yeah I feel the same way I feel as if she probably was the best candidate to and you are right kids will look at this and look at it as if a women cannot teach this game in any ways that’s why I cannot wait to see if she can take the heat and actually know how to handle the kids when times get ruff. She will have to gain respect because with her being a woman she is already being underestimated by everyone so she has to come in and take charge from the jump to show these kids and people what she can do. This will be interesting. Tue, 16 Mar 2010 19:13:47 +0000 https://www.racerelationsproject.org/2010/03/women-and-sports__trashed/#IDComment62439623 https://www.racerelationsproject.org/2010/03/women-and-sports__trashed/#IDComment62429908 This really unexpected but you know what I really want to see how this turn out with this situation. As something like this happen I can tell times are really changing, if you really look at it women are really starting to be treated equal to men in the US now for some people that good and to some people that’s bad. Now a day’s people have the same opportunity now you just have to fight for what you want and that’s one thing I understand about being an American Citizen. Looking at this lady see she seem to sweet and shy for the game but we do not know who she is once them pads are locked on and ready to go to be honest deep down inside I know she scared but morally just don’t want to make a fool of herself because she is going through a battle within itself she always have to ask questions about how are you going to do this and what are your plans for that and yes she is under allot of pressure and I knew she expected that but she seem very strong and being a football coach doesn’t have a face on its. It being a leader and having brains to teach those kids how to be winners in life which goes into being good on and off the field and she can maintain that she will be ok. She got to know it will always be those ones out there that will be watching her every mistake and some people,ay want her to feel just because she is trying to put herself in a MANS game that right there which is known will drive some men crazy and do not think this is right just because they think there are no place for women in this organization other than cheer leading no place else but as I said before everyone deserve a shot sometimes that why I’m waiting to see how this unfolds and what is the outcome will be because she is the first and she has to be the one to do great first because that will open the door for other female coaches to come in. This is her opportunity to do things the right thing what will she do when all eyes on here let’s see if the game of football is really just a MANS sport. Tue, 16 Mar 2010 18:02:46 +0000 https://www.racerelationsproject.org/2010/03/women-and-sports__trashed/#IDComment62429908 https://www.racerelationsproject.org/2010/02/why-is-this-racist-really__trashed/#IDComment61803287 Yeah I know white are not that strong in basketball talent wise but making a league just for them is not right I know he meant no harm to be racist but I agree with you it is not a good look for him at all. I just pray someone get it in his head he cannot go through with this because like I said this will start something that bigger than it really is because with him looking at it another way form the out skirt of this league looks like all trouble in different races eyes especially blacks and this is trying to go through in Atlanta lol Atlanta this guy is in for it Sat, 13 Mar 2010 05:04:12 +0000 https://www.racerelationsproject.org/2010/02/why-is-this-racist-really__trashed/#IDComment61803287 https://www.racerelationsproject.org/2010/02/why-is-this-racist-really__trashed/#IDComment61802793 Yeah you right this has no chance i really laugh at this but at the same time sad like who would really try to come up with a league for all white people this is outrageous I feel sorry for them two promoters for this because mark my words they will get the bad end of the stick for this one this is just unacceptable talking about this is just entertainment he is really make of fun of the white people saying they have no game and can really ball with other races because they can’t perform high enough if I was white I would take this in a disrespectful way . Sat, 13 Mar 2010 04:59:44 +0000 https://www.racerelationsproject.org/2010/02/why-is-this-racist-really__trashed/#IDComment61802793 https://www.racerelationsproject.org/2010/02/why-is-this-racist-really__trashed/#IDComment61802308 BAD BAD BAD IDEA What the hell was they thinking about to start this up we are trying to leave our past not bring it back to present ughhhhh this really hit me hard why? They really need to ask themselves why? This is something TP really get smacked in the mouth about I just can’t believe this……man I really hope this will not go through because if this do this can really start havoc. Lord help us with this one. I just can imagine what is going behind the scene with this one come one (all white league) wow Sat, 13 Mar 2010 04:55:15 +0000 https://www.racerelationsproject.org/2010/02/why-is-this-racist-really__trashed/#IDComment61802308