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13 years ago @ World In Conversation - Why does society disli... · 0 replies · +1 points
Another reason people dislike illegal immigrants is because of the associated crime they commit while in this country. Although many white people commit crimes, you don't normally hear about them nearly as much as when an illegal immigrant does something wrong. I normally hear a lot of stories about Mexicans and drug busts, but the main reason they probably deal drugs is because their job does not offer sustainable pay.
Many immigrants from Asia reside in my hometown. Many, however, own their shops and restaurants around the area. My favorite Korean grocery store is owned by an illegal immigrant, but she is doing very well for herself by making an honest, well-earned living. There are many Asian immigrants who live in the slums and poor conditions, but most people perceive Asians as smart and business-savvy, so a lot of people don't question their livelihoods and citizenship nearly as much as the Mexicans in my area.
People are ignorant and uneducated about illegal immigration. Many American workers feel that illegal immigrants are taking their jobs and ruining our economy, when they are doing jobs others are not willing to do. I believe there should be stricter documentation on illegal immigrants, but I definitely don't mind my Korean store lady making me more Kim Chi - can't wait to go back to Pittsburgh!
13 years ago @ World In Conversation - What are your thoughts... · 0 replies · +1 points
I am of Indian decent and am very well off compared to other Indians. It's from my mom's side of the family, however, which has a history of being less wealthy than my dad's side. Is this coincidental, or because of the Indian heritage? It's really hard to say.
I was, however, wanting more information on what we as students can do to help lessen the suppression of these people. I know we are helping others such as Haitians, but I think it's crazy that we aren't helping our people in our country, as the one guy said in the video we watched. With many people committing suicide and engaging in alcoholism, people can provide counseling or help centers for these people. We look at other people white men have oppressed in the history of this country, but we always get slapped on the hand if we mention anything bad about them. If a white person calls a black person a racist name, it's like the world would end. if someone called an Indian a "redskin," what would happen? Someone could probably cheer because it's their favorite baseball team. My high school mascot was a "Red Raider," an Indian. Our area is full of Indian culture, so people embraced it with pride. However, my art teacher threw frenzies about the mascot being used. Once class, she asked me how I would feel as a Catholic to see our cheerleaders in skanky nun outfits throwing crucifixes around.
Overall, I left the lecture feeling awful and like I should've went outside and performed a rain dance. I don't mean that to be racist, but obviously, I felt like I should've done something to try and make up for what happened. But what could I have done anyway?
13 years ago @ World In Conversation - What do you think abou... · 0 replies · +1 points
When Ernso showed us pictures of children smiling and going to school, it brought a whole new perspective on how children live in Haiti. After hearing about the earthquake, I assumed the same as I mentioned above; that Haiti was just a poverty-stricken, crime-infested country that has no hope for regrowth. If I thought that way, I can’t imagine how other people think about Haiti. When people assume that poor places are hopeless, they think to donate and then wonder where they money would actually go. Does it go to a reliable agency, or will it just go to a corrupt government and its continuing pool of poverty? Do children really combat that thinking?
From a marketing standpoint, using children is ideal. Guilt is a very powerful motivator, and easing that guilt by sending to those less fortunate probably makes a lot of people feel better knowing they helped that poor, starving child. How is this considered ethical? I'm not sure if I'd go out on a limb here saying that exploiting children in a third world country for the sake of a few dollars can be considered ethical. I am all for helping those less fortunate than me, but I can do that on my own accord; I don't need to be sent on a guilt trip and try to remedy that guilt because of an infomercial. True, if marketers would only focus on the good, people wouldn't lend a hand to Haiti; they would visit and want to explore there.
I understand the reason of using, sorry, exploiting children to get more money, but don't fall victim to the guilt. As Ernso said, the Haitians are proud people who are trying to make an honest living, not ask for anything from anyone.
13 years ago @ World In Conversation - What was more enlighte... · 0 replies · +1 points
As I woman, I already know how my gender operates. Mainly, women are catty, jealous bitches who try to outdo other women by falling to pressures of society. Even when girls tromp around in their SAME EXACT outfits of leggings, UGGs, and Northface zip-ups, they are always judging each other. I have a lot more guy friends for this reason, but at the same time, I always wonder about the male perspective. What really makes a man operate? Sure, most would say sex, alcohol, and money, but from my experience, men are deeper than that; they're just conditioned not to show it. So what really is the "male perspective?" Magazines tell me to dress this way, try this sex position, and act this way to be "instantly attractive." Is this perspective of sex appeal based on the media, porn, or biology?
My ex-boyfriend Sora was raised only by his father because his mother passed away when he was a baby. Because he had such a strong male influence in his life, Sora was different than any other guy I met. He always did such "man things." He always left the toilet seat up, said very dumb things, and had what I considered an addiction to porn. But those things were so normal to him because his father raised him to be "as manly" as he could be. I was raised around very sophisticated women- I was even sent to etiquette school! So obviously when I start dating Sora, I didn't know what to do with myself. When I confided in my friends, they would assure me that he was "just being a guy." But why, I always wondered, are men the way they are? I always asked him why he was "that way," and he just said it was what he was used to. Porn was always an enormous issue, and ultimately brought our relationship to an end because I couldn't understand the appeal. My sister told me I was a prude and being crazy for stifling his sexual interests, but not all men are porn-addicted weirdos!
For my research on the male perspective, I don't take "oh, he's just a guy" for an answer to anything. If the way a man is goes back to their DNA, I can accept that. But the influence of the media and porn are not sufficient enough for me to fall for the "he' s just a guy" argument. I know men and women are different in the way they respond to sex, but the lecture made me realize that I was putting a lot of emphasis on the differences whenever I really didn't need to. It's always interesting to get the perspective from someone who has a lot of experience like Same and Laurie, and I hope I can find a guy who can see past the influence of porn and the media, and be real with me.
13 years ago @ World In Conversation - Would you date someone... · 0 replies · +1 points
I asked my very white friend Josh if he would ever date a black girl. He laughed at me for about five minutes and then said no. Before I could ask why, he blurted out, “I’m not soul enough to handle a soul sista!” He calmed down and explained his reasoning to me. First off, he did admit Beyoncé is insanely hot, but because she’s a “caramel,” not black. In our hometown, a lot of the black people are very dark and stereotypical gangster/ghetto. All of the bomb and weapon threats that happened throughout my high school career were given by black kids who just wanted to get suspended from school for a few days. To us, many black kids were the drug-abusing, troublemaking headaches of society. In addition, no black people were in any of the honors, AP, or college-level courses with Josh and me. “Dating someone who has the same hunger for education is really important to me,” Josh explained, “so if she’s not even bright enough to get into the higher classes, forget it!” Also, Josh said he wasn’t physically attracted to the “black girl physique.” With enormous lips, hips, and thighs, and kinked hair, it can be a little intimidating, he claimed. He likes girls “proportional” like Victoria Secret models. Without the initial physical attraction, Josh claimed, it’s hard for anyone to go after someone. As shallow as it sounds, I think he’s right. It is best to give someone a chance and get to know them, but it may take some self-convincing.
In my perspective, white guys don’t date black girls based on their experiences and influence in their community. Josh and I went to high school where a majority of black kids were juvenile and uneducated, which is not attractive to him. We also come from a pretty racist area in Pennsylvania, which plays a huge part. I can’t remember ever seeing an interracial couple in high school. I’m sure if Josh starting dating a black girl, his friends and family would be angry and disapproving. Maybe white guys don’t want to start dating black girls because you know what happens when you go black – you can’t go back! But seriously, dating outside of your race can be new and scary for a lot of people. Guys are probably afraid of being judged harshly. Having the hottest girlfriend is a competition among some group of guys, and if many don’t find the black girls attractive, that guy would obviously lose! A lot of why guys aren’t able to date outside of their race is mostly external influence, which in turn causes internal decisions.
13 years ago @ World In Conversation - Have you ever felt gui... · 0 replies · +1 points
I do not think people should ever feel guilty about their race. The political correctness and discrimination of race makes people feel guilt about what they were born into, so if we want the racial differences to stop, people need to learn how to embrace what they were born with and stop being so sensitive. I grew up believing that guilt and regret are wastes of emotion, and I wish other people would believe that too. Without guilt and the fear of walking on eggshells, we could move ahead with understanding and accepting others for who they are. Race has never been an issue to me, but as time goes on in this class, I begin to realize that people feel upset with who they are. As we watched yesterday with the children and the baby dolls, we are taught at a young age that there is a difference between races. Black children in particular are taught that being white is “good” and “nice,” which was really disturbing to me. To teach children at such a young age that white is better makes black and brown children feel that guilt, which takes a lot to get rid of. I have never felt guilty about my race personally, but I can’t imagine how others would feel after being given an inferiority complex at such a young age.
13 years ago @ World In Conversation - Is it possible for aff... · 0 replies · 0 points
First of all, everyone needs to understand one VERY important thing: affirmative action is NOT a quota system; it does not mean that a minority gets a job over a white person because companies need to get a certain number of “people” in their company, which many believe is the case. The premise of affirmative action is to equal the playing field for EQUALLY-QUALIFED applicants, not saying “Oh look, he’s black—let’s totally hire him so we make ourselves look good!” I really wish people would understand what affirmative action is before they go on saying they support it or don’t support it, or they don’t know which way to go. Take time to figure it out and get educated on this issue, because believe it or not, affirmative action will have a control on you whenever you apply for jobs.
As a white female, many people believe I support affirmative action because as a woman, I am considered a workplace minority. However, I am not in support of affirmative action because it should not matter if it exists or not. Despite any job, the hiring person is training to select the best applicant for the job. And think about it: would someone deny a stellar doctor because he was black instead of hiring a mediocre, barely-made-it-out-of-med-school white guy? For the sake of the patients, hospital funding, and livelihood of the hospital, it will not matter! True, discrimination still exists, there is no denying that. However, there are laws in place (Title VII, for example) that would get the EEOC on companies’ butts really fast if actual discrimination took place. To put this simply, affirmative action is not needed because of the entire set jurisdiction that has been put into place to protect people in protected classes (race being one of them).
How can affirmative action be taken so far when its purpose is to create an equal-playing field for everyone? Are you suggesting this isn’t fair? Talk about latent white privilege! While I agree with a previous poster that this question is dumb, I will not agree with some of his other statements, like white people are becoming jealous of black people. In terms of the scholarships, however, these things are happening because he is right, that black people will continue to be at a disadvantage. Do I believe affirmative action will remedy that disadvantage? Probably not, but we all need to be the best people we can be, which is why affirmative action makes no sense because in the real world, the recruiter will hire the best person for the job. And if they don’t, hey, why would you want to work for that discriminating sucker anyway? People just always want something to complain about.
13 years ago @ World In Conversation - Is it selfish for peop... · 0 replies · +1 points
HOWEVER, families on WELFARE who have lots of children ARE selfish. More kids equals a higher check, so why not milk the system and get as much out of the government as you can? I have a lot of disdain for those who abuse welfare. In my high school, 54 percent of students were on welfare. On average, the kids on welfare were one of six or seven children. With the money the parents could have spent on obtaining birth control options, many of them bought drugs and alcohol, and sat around their house dealing drugs. If someone can just do something as enjoyable as sex and then kick back with drugs and alcohol while their kids run wild, why not? For many people in that town, that's what life was. Many kids ran in the streets, creating gangs and causing all sorts of trouble. Why? Lazy parents who want higher checks! People may consider me close-minded, but I have heard personal accounts from kids who said their parents are just having more kids for more money. A majority of those infants grow up in a home where they believe it's all right to live this way, like their selfish welfare-bumming parents. Parents have the money to properly educate themselves and their children about birth control, but why bother when you have the best life just kicking back being high and sexual all of the time? Selfish.
13 years ago @ World In Conversation - How can we make people... · 0 replies · +1 points
For us, it’s easy for us to become educated about the issues of modern day slavery while in SOC 119. However, spreading awareness among the public would be much more difficult. The best way to reach people seems to be through television commercials and public demonstrations. However, despite already common sweatshop knowledge and publicized scandals like Nike, people continue to buy and ultimately support the business. Like Ryan mentioned in class, he would still go out and spent $15 instead of $30 for the same item because he has to watch out for him. Although I would feel guilty (and no, I did not eat my second piece of chocolate), I would reluctantly buy the cheaper item because my $15 needs to go to another finance like my rent or piles of other bills that I owe each other.
Is advertising and spreading awareness really an issue that could change something? Penn State has the Student Against Sweatshops club that has gotten a clothes line, Alta Garcia, in the Penn State Bookstore. Even with signs and testimonials of workers in these factories are all over the windows of the bookstore, the free trade clothing line is one of the lower sellers while Nike shirts fly off of the shelves. We can educate, but does it really matter if people are only looking out for themselves and their wallets?
The best way to educate people would be to have people see what really goes on. But even then, would it really make a difference? After class, I went to Walmart and did my grocery shopping. If fair trade items were cheaper and finer quality than slave-made goods, people would pay attention—but pay attention for the wrong reason. In this dog-eat-dog world, it’s survival of the fittest. In this economy, a lot of people have to stretch their dollars thin. I know I do, along with many other people like me. I do have the knowledge of slavery, but I get what’s cheap. The world is about money, which a lot of college students in particular don’t have. Some people are informally educated and aware of these things, but is there a better way to get the message through to people? The answer will always be, in my opinion, money.
13 years ago @ World In Conversation - How have the choices y... · 0 replies · +1 points
I grew up Catholic, being told that God set forth plans for our lives, but it was up to us to exercise our free will to make the best decisions for ourselves. At first, I thought this sounded contradictory; much like the saying “God only helps those who help themselves.” How could I be set on where to go yet make decisions? How could God have mapped out every possible decision I would ever make in my life? In my young rebellion, I was set on the notion that I made my own damn decisions and did what I wanted to do. With all of the revelations and important people who have come into my life, it was almost like God was trying to push me back on the right path. I do believe in a combination of both, because I do things that are unsaintly but in better judgment.