en-us https://www.intensedebate.com/users/336671 Comments by abharris http://www.onwingsofpigs.com/2015/05/throwback-thursday-strip-search-101.html#IDComment987883557 This was pretty much the equivalent of that. When you "squat" your cheeks naturally spread just a little bit. And then when you cough if there's anything internal it tends to peek out. Wed, 29 Jul 2015 18:58:15 +0000 http://www.onwingsofpigs.com/2015/05/throwback-thursday-strip-search-101.html#IDComment987883557 http://myfingersarecrossed.blogspot.com/2015/01/blog-post_23.html?m=0#IDComment944410874 I hope your weekend is better now! I love you! Sat, 24 Jan 2015 16:34:07 +0000 http://myfingersarecrossed.blogspot.com/2015/01/blog-post_23.html?m=0#IDComment944410874 http://onwingsofpigs.blogspot.ca/2013/09/instagrams-september-17-2013-at-0449pm.html#IDComment722186530 I agree!! Thu, 19 Sep 2013 02:53:37 +0000 http://onwingsofpigs.blogspot.ca/2013/09/instagrams-september-17-2013-at-0449pm.html#IDComment722186530 http://onwingsofpigs.blogspot.ca/2013/09/instagrams-september-14-2013-at-0819pm.html#IDComment720243685 I thought of you when I turned it that way! :) Sun, 15 Sep 2013 03:40:52 +0000 http://onwingsofpigs.blogspot.ca/2013/09/instagrams-september-14-2013-at-0819pm.html#IDComment720243685 http://onwingsofpigs.blogspot.ca/2013/09/first-september-photo-day.html#IDComment712597223 Thank you! I haven't quite mastered the art of selfies so I was pleased there wasn't an extra chin in this one! ;) Mon, 2 Sep 2013 15:17:23 +0000 http://onwingsofpigs.blogspot.ca/2013/09/first-september-photo-day.html#IDComment712597223 http://myfingersarecrossed.blogspot.com/2013/08/what-i-did-this-summer.html#IDComment711276357 Wish you could have seen his face when I told him he had his very first blog comment! You made his night! Thanks for dropping by! Sat, 31 Aug 2013 03:03:06 +0000 http://myfingersarecrossed.blogspot.com/2013/08/what-i-did-this-summer.html#IDComment711276357 http://onwingsofpigs.blogspot.com/2012/01/calling-it-what-it-is.html#IDComment283050569 I love you too and I'm SO glad that our online community brought us together!! I can't imagine my life without you! Fri, 3 Feb 2012 19:52:35 +0000 http://onwingsofpigs.blogspot.com/2012/01/calling-it-what-it-is.html#IDComment283050569 http://onwingsofpigs.blogspot.com/2012/01/calling-it-what-it-is.html#IDComment283050206 Thank you!! I appreciate your support so much!! Fri, 3 Feb 2012 19:51:59 +0000 http://onwingsofpigs.blogspot.com/2012/01/calling-it-what-it-is.html#IDComment283050206 http://onwingsofpigs.blogspot.com/2010/06/happily-ever-afterall.html#IDComment81216028 And now you've made me cry!! Thank you so much for these words, you'll never know how much they mean to me! That little boy has SO much love surrounding him and I'm so thankful that it shows in his heart and in his personality and I'm so thankful, for him as well as me, that we have Jason and we have a good, honorable, and caring man to be a husband for me and a Daddy for Ty. Since it's just going to be "Me and Ty" for such a short time I've been letting him sleep in my bed so we can have some Mama and Boy time before we move and that's all he could talk about last night was that we were going to be a family and Jason was going to be his Daddy and how his family would be our family now. I just love the excitement and openness to love that he has! Thank you so much, Ms. Kim, and every gift and every kindness shown to you was just repayment for all the great things you give and put into those kids! Mon, 21 Jun 2010 12:05:46 +0000 http://onwingsofpigs.blogspot.com/2010/06/happily-ever-afterall.html#IDComment81216028 http://onwingsofpigs.blogspot.com/2009/05/up-in-air.html#IDComment61275869 I think you're missing the point. I'm not looking for a man to take care of me or my child, I've never thought, much less written, anything to that degree. I don't want a man to fix me or to provide for me or to take care of my child. At the time that I wrote this I just wanted to finally find a guy that would accept me--all of me. My child just happens to be part of the package deal. Every woman comes with a package. Some have family issues, some have financial issues, some have mental or emotional issues. The wording of your question makes me think you're a man who considers a child an issue. Thankfully I've since found a man who doesn't see my child in that light and thankfully there are other men out there who are willing to accept the children of others WITHOUT asking "What's in it for me?" because if they ask themselves that in the first place, they have no business in a relationship. Relationships are about giving to one another, not about making sure you get enough out of it to justify the time and effort. Wed, 10 Mar 2010 20:45:49 +0000 http://onwingsofpigs.blogspot.com/2009/05/up-in-air.html#IDComment61275869 http://onwingsofpigs.blogspot.com/2009/11/you-might-be-obsessed-if.html#IDComment44717680 Wow..... If the panties didn't already cross the line...the sex toy took a running start and completely jumped OVER the line. It's disturbing to think that someone could be THAT into a fictional character. Wed, 25 Nov 2009 23:47:22 +0000 http://onwingsofpigs.blogspot.com/2009/11/you-might-be-obsessed-if.html#IDComment44717680 http://onwingsofpigs.blogspot.com/2009/05/up-in-air.html#IDComment37321887 Brooke, thank you so much!! As much as I have previously gotten tired of hearing "Quit looking and you'll find him", I'm continually inspired by all the women who can say that they did exactly that! I have full faith that someday I'll get my happily ever after. And I have full faith that it will be so very worth the wait and every hard time that's come along. Thanks for your words today! I definitely needed them! Mon, 5 Oct 2009 16:54:10 +0000 http://onwingsofpigs.blogspot.com/2009/05/up-in-air.html#IDComment37321887 http://onwingsofpigs.blogspot.com/2009/09/getting-in-on-girl-talk.html#IDComment33673007 Thanks girl! I just LOVED that blog and have checked back a dozen times to read additional comments and see how others have connected to it, as well!! Morgan did such a great job with it!! Tue, 8 Sep 2009 21:21:47 +0000 http://onwingsofpigs.blogspot.com/2009/09/getting-in-on-girl-talk.html#IDComment33673007 http://onwingsofpigs.blogspot.com/2009/09/getting-in-on-girl-talk.html#IDComment33672942 Thanks!! I have some people that look at me like I'm nuts when I mention him having been on Breaker High! I was beginning to wonder if I'd just imagined the whole thing! Tue, 8 Sep 2009 21:20:38 +0000 http://onwingsofpigs.blogspot.com/2009/09/getting-in-on-girl-talk.html#IDComment33672942 http://onwingsofpigs.blogspot.com/2009/08/changes-to-come.html#IDComment32629308 It's a Canon FS200! They have them in the silver and the red that I got, but I think they have them in black, too. Mon, 31 Aug 2009 02:29:56 +0000 http://onwingsofpigs.blogspot.com/2009/08/changes-to-come.html#IDComment32629308 http://onwingsofpigs.blogspot.com/2009/08/valid-excuses.html#IDComment32141182 He does work there! He's been working in the tower for us for a little more than a year I think!! Thanks on the sign! I finally showed the Sheriff today because we had an inmate that I was afraid was going to ruin the surprise, so I didn't wait till it was done because I wanted to be the one to show him! Now he's got stuff ordered for me to paint a sign, now too!! Makes for peaceful days to sit in the quiet by yourself and just paint! Thu, 27 Aug 2009 11:29:34 +0000 http://onwingsofpigs.blogspot.com/2009/08/valid-excuses.html#IDComment32141182 http://onwingsofpigs.blogspot.com/2009/08/boob-or-bottle.html#IDComment30325672 This is why I respect both of you ladies!! You believe in it, you have done it, and you encourage it without condemning people who opt not to! I can respect that and I can respect both of you for being that way. I think it's up to every mom to learn about it and to decide for themselves whether they think it's the right thing to do or not. I respect both of you and your opinions and I'm glad you shared them with me! Mon, 10 Aug 2009 23:03:58 +0000 http://onwingsofpigs.blogspot.com/2009/08/boob-or-bottle.html#IDComment30325672 http://mssinglemama.com/2009/07/13/new-roommate/#IDComment27148391 I love these!!! And I agree with ghawk. I drove a manual transmission for 8 years and have been driving an automatic for the last 5 and I miss my standard terribly!!! Mon, 13 Jul 2009 16:33:52 +0000 http://mssinglemama.com/2009/07/13/new-roommate/#IDComment27148391 http://onwingsofpigs.blogspot.com/2009/07/made-of-scars.html#IDComment26050013 In Re: to MommaSunshine (since IntenseDebate still won't let me reply....) Thank you! On the topic of regrets, my motto is "No regrets. Just lessons learned." It works well for me. :) Wed, 1 Jul 2009 18:55:51 +0000 http://onwingsofpigs.blogspot.com/2009/07/made-of-scars.html#IDComment26050013 http://mssinglemama.com/2009/06/30/my-dark-side/#IDComment26029180 I've been told that the healing process is never truly over, there's always a scar and it's always a little more tender than the skin around it. And scars always have this way of reminding you that your past was real. I, too, struggle with my scars and so far it's ruined every chance of a relationship that I've had in the past three years. But at some point I need to accept that these are my battle wounds, these are my lessons learned and proof that I have given what I had to give, I have been hurt, and I have survived. So scars, for me, aren't so much about being hurt anymore. They're about surviving. About getting past the hurt and letting go of the pain. I like to consider them proof of my strength and my courage instead of proof that I cared enough about someone that they had the ability to hurt me. And even though it's natural to want to protect myself again, even though it's natural to want to use those scars as a reminder of how bad you can hurt....I like to think of them as proof that--worst case scenario--I'll survive. I'll endure. And I'll come out a better and stronger person as I have before. But I have faith that, someday, some man will see me and my scars and the fear behind my smile and he'll think I'm absolutely beautiful and worth enduring the hard and difficult times for. I think that he'll understand that when I lash out and when I withdraw, that it's just a part of me that I need to work through and that I need to deal with. And I have faith that, even though it might hurt him, he'll understand and he'll be there to hold my hand again when I let him. I have a quote, too, that I love. "Find a person who loves you for exactly who you are. Good mood, bad mood, ugly, pretty, handsome…the right person is still going to think the sun shines out of your back-side. That’s the kind of person worth sticking with." I think that John Bear is that kind of person for you, and even though he's hurt and you're hurt for him by your words, I think that he cares deeply for you and that he'll continue to, no matter what. Hope things work out and resolve themselves quickly. Wed, 1 Jul 2009 14:34:50 +0000 http://mssinglemama.com/2009/06/30/my-dark-side/#IDComment26029180