Zooey_Glass04

Zooey_Glass04

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7 years ago @ The Toast - Go On, Get Out Of Here · 0 replies · +11 points

I have been offline all day today and have missed all the final posts going up! So taking the opportunity now to say - you are great! You are all great! This has been a truly wonderful site and community and I am devastated to see it go but also happy to see it go out on a high. So excited to see what you all do next.

LOVE YOU GUYS *bawls*

7 years ago @ The Toast - Link Roundup! · 1 reply · +11 points

Are you David Cameron?

7 years ago @ The Toast - Link Roundup! · 0 replies · +13 points

Also, let's just never forget that it's a hell of a lot easier to be ideologically pure when you're a white straight man.

Yes! Also, I don't actually want the leader to be ideologically pure - I want them to be effective. I'm infuriated by the way the far left have turned 'Blairite' into the worst possible insult instead of pointing out all the things that were done in the Blair years that were good. It's a gift to the other side when your own party is weirdly ashamed of its own period in government. Why not say 'Blair achieved lots of great things but was ultimately problematic. We're going to preserve the best parts of what was achieved under the Blair government but also build on them to have a fairer society'?

There is an important place for people who relentlessly police their own side and call then out on all the ways they fuck up. That's the place Corbyn has occupied for most of his career. However, that is not the job of the leader. (Obviously the leader should be able to acknowledge things which have been wrong - but they can't behave as if those invalidate any and all achievements.)

7 years ago @ The Toast - Link Roundup! · 3 replies · +6 points

Yes, please, please just go. I get why he wants to hold another leadership election (which there is a high chance he'll win) but the fact is that a BIG part of being leader in a parliamentory system is being able to actually lead the party. So you may or may not think that the PLP should fall in line (I personally feel that they have a democratic right to express a lack of confidence just as much as members have a right to do the opposite) but given that they are OVERWHELMINGLY rejecting him he just can't do his job.

For me personally, his behavour over the EU ref has made me lose confidence in him - even more so since I discovered he didn't even vote on ANY reading of the referendum bill (when he could have been leading the way on constructive things such as extending the vote to 16 & 17 year olds). I did vote for him in the last leadership election but definitely won't be voting for him in this one (assuming there is one) and think he should have the grace to resign. (ETA - I think he should have the grace to resign because he can't lead the party and refusing to do so is dragging out a bad situation, not because of the behaviour in the referendum.)

7 years ago @ The Toast - Link Roundup! · 0 replies · +2 points

They were traditionally the centre ground party, then in the Blair years Labour moved into this niche and the Lib Dems moved sort-of to the left, but not so much so that they couldn't form a coalition with the Conservatives. This is one of the problems they are having, basically - neither they nor anyone else is really sure where they fit.

7 years ago @ The Toast - Every Meal In Grea... · 0 replies · +35 points

'It could provide enough food to feed one person for around two weeks, or a family of mice for several months.' <33333

7 years ago @ The Toast - Link Roundup and Open ... · 1 reply · +2 points

You might find Kelvin Holdsworth an interesting person to read. He's an out gay man serving as a priest in the Scottish Episcopalian Church. He wrote a great piece on Orlando and religious responses to LGBTQ issues: http://stv.tv/news/politics/1357273-it-s-not-enou...

7 years ago @ The Toast - Cocktail Hour: Open Th... · 0 replies · +9 points

*hugs also* I just feel so so angry and so so tired. Why is America willing to trample over all sorts of civil rights in the name of 'preventing terrorism' but completely unwilling to entertain the notion that there might need to be a balance between people's right to unlimited access to firearms and people's right to not be murdered?

7 years ago @ The Toast - Open Thread In Lieu Of... · 0 replies · +1 points

Thanks! I might get him to give Pacifica a try - it seems like something that could be a small regular thing. He goes out of his way to avoid being the guy in that Captain Awkward column, but as I said to tea_trousers below it is still easy for me to feel a bit guilty about going off and having fun without him when he is feeling down, so it's useful to have the importance of self-care on my side reinforced.

7 years ago @ The Toast - Open Thread In Lieu Of... · 0 replies · +1 points

That's super helpful on both counts. I tend to just try and behave normally but sometimes worry that it seems like I'm just brushing him off. And even though he always really encourages me to do my own thing and see my friends, it's hard not to feel a bit guilty about it (especially since his good friends are all some distance away). So it's nice to hear it endorsed by someone else!