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15 years ago @ World In Conversation - If prison has taken an... · 0 replies · +1 points

I have never even stepped into a prison for once, so I am confused with all the aspects of the prisons. How is it look like? What are prisoners supposed to do inside of these limited walls? Does it have some restrictions for people to obey and to recognize the most correct ways of behaviors? Is it full of serious senses? Or is it no more than just fears and worries? Is it possible for someone to have fun inside? What’s the most important value of the prison which it has acted out and is regulating so well? So many uninterrupted questions coming up in my minds just according to my innocent curiosities about diverse tiny parts of a prison. It’s awful and destructive in my first impression when referring to anything about prison, since I have read a large amount of personal emotional expressions about lifers. There is only a comparatively extreme minimal number of lifers or just someone who has even had experience inside prison who can live a happy and relaxing life. Their essays can always be defined as a way of regrettable thinking and potential reevaluation of themselves.In the article “If prison has taken anything away from me…”, there is a negative and unhappy voice which is expressing sins and crimes and cold based on the daily life. The lifer is persuiting some kind of emotion no matter bad or good, no matter negative or positive, no matter natural or unreal. All he wants is that he don’t want to be vacant inside his heart or mind. In other words, he is in eager and urgent needs for gaining a emotional behavior and structure as general people do, which can be defined as if his inside worlds can be valued as a true human being’s regular device. No wonder that inside himself, he has more fears and negative expressions than happy and positive ones. According to his statement, “My past is a collage of half remembered pains.  My present is a constant state of longing.  My future an endless stretch of blackness”, though he has looked into his own world deeper and further than our imagination, he is still struggling to change a little bit of what he has formerly assumed and constructed. He wonders if he can regain some brightness of life; he didn’t say simply that he wants more than just the failure about the whole world; he feels incapable to re-obtain anything can lead to a exciting and colorful being; he really consider the whole thing going in an established steady way in which worlds should be regulated or operated in a way just against lifers’ freedom because they are just the groups who have no sharing responsibility or enjoying rights anymore. What a pity for themselves to think it the same way since others’ conceptions have no more serious and fundamental effects as own ones. If ones they have been put into a prison, they have a future path to make self-evaluations once every day. It turns out like a cycling tendency for them to be reminding themselves that they are harmful individuals and crime takers, or they are worthless and useless in every parts of life with various levels of disabilities. That’s true and appropriate for lifers to regret about what they had done before, but it’s more vital for them to re-examine what their insides look like and re-build one which has more upwards transcending factors with a full combinations of happiness and wishes. As a result, trying to find something has been stolen unconsciously by the prison or hidden by outsides environments, is a challenge just like a phenomenon in which a fish is struggling with insufficient and never-enough power to get to know what if they haven’t been in water before. That’s the way society works, since we are a mini part which can be easily neglected all the time so we are lack of capacity to make any revolutions. That’s the individuals’ weakness compared with society’s powerfulness. Behind all these outsides, hidden inside is the huge complications and embarrassments. No matter we have or haven’t discovered it, it is just there never going to disappear.

15 years ago @ World In Conversation - Last Name "X" - Intens... · 0 replies · +1 points

After reading “Flip the script for a moment”, I have to admit that there are actually-existing invisible strings which have shaped our ways of actions and responses towards different social issues. I have to accept the conception that people whoever inside a certain society, should have been restricted in a special kind of behaviors and habits in daily life. There are lots of copies accompanied with wide-ranged progressing so that the whole society is moving forward all the time. In my opinion, looking inside the ways of humans’ thoughts and actions, is supposed to be a complex and unexpected way which can not be obtained by general people who have no extraordinary capability of empathy. Referring to empathy, it is no wonder an uncommon ability which is full of skills to step out of own shoes and stand on others’ points with constant reconsidering the world. If a majority of people have possessed the way to manipulate “empathy” correctly, there is no wonder that less bias, wars, conflicts appearing in the world. What’s more, the imbalanced definitions of different races and genders should have disappeared already. However, the reality isn’t as perfect and well-behaved as we expect. The long-lasting shortage of equitable judgment and definition towards different social phenomena are really difficult and complicated to delete within a small amount of time even inside a tiny range of location. That’s why human beings are struggling the unique ways which are acceptable within individuals themselves but not suitable for the entire society out because they have to compromise to the wholly social rules as long as they want to step further. Apparently, individuals are really weak so that they have no tremendous and effective influences to change anything about their own behaviors. According to this incapability, society is acting out in its own way which is though based on the summary of individuals’ behaviors but it turns out more like a group-thinking which should obey and perfect the upper-classes’ benefits. That’s how the huge and diverse society has been working so well- just on the basis of the decisions and sole selfishness from a small class of politicians and riches who have totally unimaginable great powers to control almost the ways of social actions. Just considering the races without matters with gender differences, it seems ridiculous to punish any unequal former perspectives because different races built up with different cultures and wealth really have own styles and even have accepted their own social levels and divisions positively. That is to say, looking back for a really long-gone history, race bias has been defined as a natural solution to social classes divisions and people all over the world are potentially willing maybe actually they have to accept the way it is. It is the same way how gender difference works. Invisible strings establish the background of the society which has a large and wide influential impedes for the equal conception to last forever. Regarding people as fish, the society as the water we have to choose to live in, none of us can leave it for a long time though we can flee and escape the environment and regulate own styles for a while; we should confirm that we have to find out a way to come back even if we have discovered what is wrong inside the society or what should be done in eager needs. Only own to the natural fundamental rule that fishes have to live in water, we are the last and un-easiest ones to realize the conditions or stay awaken for a periods. That’s the mysterious sociology, we should try to think like a sociologist though it is kinds of confusions resulting from lots of hidden surprises whatever bad or good. Never doubt the way, it is just what is should be acted.

15 years ago @ World In Conversation - Flip the Script for a ... · 0 replies · +1 points

After reading “Flip the script for a moment”, I have to admit that there are actually-existing invisible strings which have shaped our ways of actions and responses towards different social issues. I have to accept the conception that people whoever inside a certain society, should have been restricted in a special kind of behaviors and habits in daily life. There are lots of copies accompanied with wide-ranged progressing so that the whole society is moving forward all the time. In my opinion, looking inside the ways of humans’ thoughts and actions, is supposed to be a complex and unexpected way which can not be obtained by general people who have no extraordinary capability of empathy. Referring to empathy, it is no wonder an uncommon ability which is full of skills to step out of own shoes and stand on others’ points with constant reconsidering the world. If a majority of people have possessed the way to manipulate “empathy” correctly, there is no wonder that less bias, wars, conflicts appearing in the world. What’s more, the imbalanced definitions of different races and genders should have disappeared already. However, the reality isn’t as perfect and well-behaved as we expect. The long-lasting shortage of equitable judgment and definition towards different social phenomena are really difficult and complicated to delete within a small amount of time even inside a tiny range of location. That’s why human beings are struggling the unique ways which are acceptable within individuals themselves but not suitable for the entire society out because they have to compromise to the wholly social rules as long as they want to step further. Apparently, individuals are really weak so that they have no tremendous and effective influences to change anything about their own behaviors. According to this incapability, society is acting out in its own way which is though based on the summary of individuals’ behaviors but it turns out more like a group-thinking which should obey and perfect the upper-classes’ benefits. That’s how the huge and diverse society has been working so well- just on the basis of the decisions and sole selfishness from a small class of politicians and riches who have totally unimaginable great powers to control almost the ways of social actions. Just considering the races without matters with gender differences, it seems ridiculous to punish any unequal former perspectives because different races built up with different cultures and wealth really have own styles and even have accepted their own social levels and divisions positively. That is to say, looking back for a really long-gone history, race bias has been defined as a natural solution to social classes divisions and people all over the world are potentially willing maybe actually they have to accept the way it is. It is the same way how gender difference works. Invisible strings establish the background of the society which has a large and wide influential impedes for the equal conception to last forever. Regarding people as fish, the society as the water we have to choose to live in, none of us can leave it for a long time though we can flee and escape the environment and regulate own styles for a while; we should confirm that we have to find out a way to come back even if we have discovered what is wrong inside the society or what should be done in eager needs. Only own to the natural fundamental rule that fishes have to live in water, we are the last and un-easiest ones to realize the conditions or stay awaken for a periods. That’s the mysterious sociology, we should try to think like a sociologist though it is kinds of confusions resulting from lots of hidden surprises whatever bad or good. Never doubt the way, it is just what is should be acted.

15 years ago @ World In Conversation - Last Name "X" - Intens... · 0 replies · +1 points

After reading “Flip the script for a moment”, I have to admit that there are actually-existing invisible strings which have shaped our ways of actions and responses towards different social issues. I have to accept the conception that people whoever inside a certain society, should have been restricted in a special kind of behaviors and habits in daily life. There are lots of copies accompanied with wide-ranged progressing so that the whole society is moving forward all the time. In my opinion, looking inside the ways of humans’ thoughts and actions, is supposed to be a complex and unexpected way which can not be obtained by general people who have no extraordinary capability of empathy. Referring to empathy, it is no wonder an uncommon ability which is full of skills to step out of own shoes and stand on others’ points with constant reconsidering the world. If a majority of people have possessed the way to manipulate “empathy” correctly, there is no wonder that less bias, wars, conflicts appearing in the world. What’s more, the imbalanced definitions of different races and genders should have disappeared already. However, the reality isn’t as perfect and well-behaved as we expect. The long-lasting shortage of equitable judgment and definition towards different social phenomena are really difficult and complicated to delete within a small amount of time even inside a tiny range of location. That’s why human beings are struggling the unique ways which are acceptable within individuals themselves but not suitable for the entire society out because they have to compromise to the wholly social rules as long as they want to step further. Apparently, individuals are really weak so that they have no tremendous and effective influences to change anything about their own behaviors. According to this incapability, society is acting out in its own way which is though based on the summary of individuals’ behaviors but it turns out more like a group-thinking which should obey and perfect the upper-classes’ benefits. That’s how the huge and diverse society has been working so well- just on the basis of the decisions and sole selfishness from a small class of politicians and riches who have totally unimaginable great powers to control almost the ways of social actions. Just considering the races without matters with gender differences, it seems ridiculous to punish any unequal former perspectives because different races built up with different cultures and wealth really have own styles and even have accepted their own social levels and divisions positively. That is to say, looking back for a really long-gone history, race bias has been defined as a natural solution to social classes divisions and people all over the world are potentially willing maybe actually they have to accept the way it is. It is the same way how gender difference works. Invisible strings establish the background of the society which has a large and wide influential impedes for the equal conception to last forever. Regarding people as fish, the society as the water we have to choose to live in, none of us can leave it for a long time though we can flee and escape the environment and regulate own styles for a while; we should confirm that we have to find out a way to come back even if we have discovered what is wrong inside the society or what should be done in eager needs. Only own to the natural fundamental rule that fishes have to live in water, we are the last and un-easiest ones to realize the conditions or stay awaken for a periods. That’s the mysterious sociology, we should try to think like a sociologist though it is kinds of confusions resulting from lots of hidden surprises whatever bad or good. Never doubt the way, it is just what is should be acted.

15 years ago @ World In Conversation - Last Name "X" - Intens... · 0 replies · +1 points

After reading “Flip the script for a moment”, I have to admit that there are actually-existing invisible strings which have shaped our ways of actions and responses towards different social issues. I have to accept the conception that people whoever inside a certain society, should have been restricted in a special kind of behaviors and habits in daily life. There are lots of copies accompanied with wide-ranged progressing so that the whole society is moving forward all the time. In my opinion, looking inside the ways of humans’ thoughts and actions, is supposed to be a complex and unexpected way which can not be obtained by general people who have no extraordinary capability of empathy. Referring to empathy, it is no wonder an uncommon ability which is full of skills to step out of own shoes and stand on others’ points with constant reconsidering the world. If a majority of people have possessed the way to manipulate “empathy” correctly, there is no wonder that less bias, wars, conflicts appearing in the world. What’s more, the imbalanced definitions of different races and genders should have disappeared already. However, the reality isn’t as perfect and well-behaved as we expect. The long-lasting shortage of equitable judgment and definition towards different social phenomena are really difficult and complicated to delete within a small amount of time even inside a tiny range of location. That’s why human beings are struggling the unique ways which are acceptable within individuals themselves but not suitable for the entire society out because they have to compromise to the wholly social rules as long as they want to step further. Apparently, individuals are really weak so that they have no tremendous and effective influences to change anything about their own behaviors. According to this incapability, society is acting out in its own way which is though based on the summary of individuals’ behaviors but it turns out more like a group-thinking which should obey and perfect the upper-classes’ benefits. That’s how the huge and diverse society has been working so well- just on the basis of the decisions and sole selfishness from a small class of politicians and riches who have totally unimaginable great powers to control almost the ways of social actions. Just considering the races without matters with gender differences, it seems ridiculous to punish any unequal former perspectives because different races built up with different cultures and wealth really have own styles and even have accepted their own social levels and divisions positively. That is to say, looking back for a really long-gone history, race bias has been defined as a natural solution to social classes divisions and people all over the world are potentially willing maybe actually they have to accept the way it is. It is the same way how gender difference works. Invisible strings establish the background of the society which has a large and wide influential impedes for the equal conception to last forever. Regarding people as fish, the society as the water we have to choose to live in, none of us can leave it for a long time though we can flee and escape the environment and regulate own styles for a while; we should confirm that we have to find out a way to come back even if we have discovered what is wrong inside the society or what should be done in eager needs. Only own to the natural fundamental rule that fishes have to live in water, we are the last and un-easiest ones to realize the conditions or stay awaken for a periods. That’s the mysterious sociology, we should try to think like a sociologist though it is kinds of confusions resulting from lots of hidden surprises whatever bad or good. Never doubt the way, it is just what is should be acted.

15 years ago @ World In Conversation - Last Name "X" - Intens... · 0 replies · +1 points

After reading “Flip the script for a moment”, I have to admit that there are actually-existing invisible strings which have shaped our ways of actions and responses towards different social issues. I have to accept the conception that people whoever inside a certain society, should have been restricted in a special kind of behaviors and habits in daily life. There are lots of copies accompanied with wide-ranged progressing so that the whole society is moving forward all the time. In my opinion, looking inside the ways of humans’ thoughts and actions, is supposed to be a complex and unexpected way which can not be obtained by general people who have no extraordinary capability of empathy. Referring to empathy, it is no wonder an uncommon ability which is full of skills to step out of own shoes and stand on others’ points with constant reconsidering the world. If a majority of people have possessed the way to manipulate “empathy” correctly, there is no wonder that less bias, wars, conflicts appearing in the world. What’s more, the imbalanced definitions of different races and genders should have disappeared already. However, the reality isn’t as perfect and well-behaved as we expect. The long-lasting shortage of equitable judgment and definition towards different social phenomena are really difficult and complicated to delete within a small amount of time even inside a tiny range of location. That’s why human beings are struggling the unique ways which are acceptable within individuals themselves but not suitable for the entire society out because they have to compromise to the wholly social rules as long as they want to step further. Apparently, individuals are really weak so that they have no tremendous and effective influences to change anything about their own behaviors. According to this incapability, society is acting out in its own way which is though based on the summary of individuals’ behaviors but it turns out more like a group-thinking which should obey and perfect the upper-classes’ benefits. That’s how the huge and diverse society has been working so well- just on the basis of the decisions and sole selfishness from a small class of politicians and riches who have totally unimaginable great powers to control almost the ways of social actions. Just considering the races without matters with gender differences, it seems ridiculous to punish any unequal former perspectives because different races built up with different cultures and wealth really have own styles and even have accepted their own social levels and divisions positively. That is to say, looking back for a really long-gone history, race bias has been defined as a natural solution to social classes divisions and people all over the world are potentially willing maybe actually they have to accept the way it is. It is the same way how gender difference works. Invisible strings establish the background of the society which has a large and wide influential impedes for the equal conception to last forever. Regarding people as fish, the society as the water we have to choose to live in, none of us can leave it for a long time though we can flee and escape the environment and regulate own styles for a while; we should confirm that we have to find out a way to come back even if we have discovered what is wrong inside the society or what should be done in eager needs. Only own to the natural fundamental rule that fishes have to live in water, we are the last and un-easiest ones to realize the conditions or stay awaken for a periods. That’s the mysterious sociology, we should try to think like a sociologist though it is kinds of confusions resulting from lots of hidden surprises whatever bad or good. Never doubt the way, it is just what is should be acted.

15 years ago @ World In Conversation - Last Name "X" - Intens... · 0 replies · +1 points

After reading “Flip the script for a moment”, I have to admit that there are actually-existing invisible strings which have shaped our ways of actions and responses towards different social issues. I have to accept the conception that people whoever inside a certain society, should have been restricted in a special kind of behaviors and habits in daily life. There are lots of copies accompanied with wide-ranged progressing so that the whole society is moving forward all the time. In my opinion, looking inside the ways of humans’ thoughts and actions, is supposed to be a complex and unexpected way which can not be obtained by general people who have no extraordinary capability of empathy. Referring to empathy, it is no wonder an uncommon ability which is full of skills to step out of own shoes and stand on others’ points with constant reconsidering the world. If a majority of people have possessed the way to manipulate “empathy” correctly, there is no wonder that less bias, wars, conflicts appearing in the world. What’s more, the imbalanced definitions of different races and genders should have disappeared already. However, the reality isn’t as perfect and well-behaved as we expect. The long-lasting shortage of equitable judgment and definition towards different social phenomena are really difficult and complicated to delete within a small amount of time even inside a tiny range of location. That’s why human beings are struggling the unique ways which are acceptable within individuals themselves but not suitable for the entire society out because they have to compromise to the wholly social rules as long as they want to step further. Apparently, individuals are really weak so that they have no tremendous and effective influences to change anything about their own behaviors. According to this incapability, society is acting out in its own way which is though based on the summary of individuals’ behaviors but it turns out more like a group-thinking which should obey and perfect the upper-classes’ benefits. That’s how the huge and diverse society has been working so well- just on the basis of the decisions and sole selfishness from a small class of politicians and riches who have totally unimaginable great powers to control almost the ways of social actions. Just considering the races without matters with gender differences, it seems ridiculous to punish any unequal former perspectives because different races built up with different cultures and wealth really have own styles and even have accepted their own social levels and divisions positively. That is to say, looking back for a really long-gone history, race bias has been defined as a natural solution to social classes divisions and people all over the world are potentially willing maybe actually they have to accept the way it is. It is the same way how gender difference works. Invisible strings establish the background of the society which has a large and wide influential impedes for the equal conception to last forever. Regarding people as fish, the society as the water we have to choose to live in, none of us can leave it for a long time though we can flee and escape the environment and regulate own styles for a while; we should confirm that we have to find out a way to come back even if we have discovered what is wrong inside the society or what should be done in eager needs. Only own to the natural fundamental rule that fishes have to live in water, we are the last and un-easiest ones to realize the conditions or stay awaken for a periods. That’s the mysterious sociology, we should try to think like a sociologist though it is kinds of confusions resulting from lots of hidden surprises whatever bad or good. Never doubt the way, it is just what is should be acted.

15 years ago @ World In Conversation - Last Name "X" - Intens... · 0 replies · +1 points

After reading “Flip the script for a moment”, I have to admit that there are actually-existing invisible strings which have shaped our ways of actions and responses towards different social issues. I have to accept the conception that people whoever inside a certain society, should have been restricted in a special kind of behaviors and habits in daily life. There are lots of copies accompanied with wide-ranged progressing so that the whole society is moving forward all the time. In my opinion, looking inside the ways of humans’ thoughts and actions, is supposed to be a complex and unexpected way which can not be obtained by general people who have no extraordinary capability of empathy. Referring to empathy, it is no wonder an uncommon ability which is full of skills to step out of own shoes and stand on others’ points with constant reconsidering the world. If a majority of people have possessed the way to manipulate “empathy” correctly, there is no wonder that less bias, wars, conflicts appearing in the world. What’s more, the imbalanced definitions of different races and genders should have disappeared already. However, the reality isn’t as perfect and well-behaved as we expect. The long-lasting shortage of equitable judgment and definition towards different social phenomena are really difficult and complicated to delete within a small amount of time even inside a tiny range of location. That’s why human beings are struggling the unique ways which are acceptable within individuals themselves but not suitable for the entire society out because they have to compromise to the wholly social rules as long as they want to step further. Apparently, individuals are really weak so that they have no tremendous and effective influences to change anything about their own behaviors. According to this incapability, society is acting out in its own way which is though based on the summary of individuals’ behaviors but it turns out more like a group-thinking which should obey and perfect the upper-classes’ benefits. That’s how the huge and diverse society has been working so well- just on the basis of the decisions and sole selfishness from a small class of politicians and riches who have totally unimaginable great powers to control almost the ways of social actions. Just considering the races without matters with gender differences, it seems ridiculous to punish any unequal former perspectives because different races built up with different cultures and wealth really have own styles and even have accepted their own social levels and divisions positively. That is to say, looking back for a really long-gone history, race bias has been defined as a natural solution to social classes divisions and people all over the world are potentially willing maybe actually they have to accept the way it is. It is the same way how gender difference works. Invisible strings establish the background of the society which has a large and wide influential impedes for the equal conception to last forever. Regarding people as fish, the society as the water we have to choose to live in, none of us can leave it for a long time though we can flee and escape the environment and regulate own styles for a while; we should confirm that we have to find out a way to come back even if we have discovered what is wrong inside the society or what should be done in eager needs. Only own to the natural fundamental rule that fishes have to live in water, we are the last and un-easiest ones to realize the conditions or stay awaken for a periods. That’s the mysterious sociology, we should try to think like a sociologist though it is kinds of confusions resulting from lots of hidden surprises whatever bad or good. Never doubt the way, it is just what is should be acted.

15 years ago @ World In Conversation - Flip the Script for a ... · 0 replies · +1 points

After reading “Flip the script for a moment”, I have to admit that there are actually-existing invisible strings which have shaped our ways of actions and responses towards different social issues. I have to accept the conception that people whoever inside a certain society, should have been restricted in a special kind of behaviors and habits in daily life. There are lots of copies accompanied with wide-ranged progressing so that the whole society is moving forward all the time. In my opinion, looking inside the ways of humans’ thoughts and actions, is supposed to be a complex and unexpected way which can not be obtained by general people who have no extraordinary capability of empathy. Referring to empathy, it is no wonder an uncommon ability which is full of skills to step out of own shoes and stand on others’ points with constant reconsidering the world. If a majority of people have possessed the way to manipulate “empathy” correctly, there is no wonder that less bias, wars, conflicts appearing in the world. What’s more, the imbalanced definitions of different races and genders should have disappeared already. However, the reality isn’t as perfect and well-behaved as we expect. The long-lasting shortage of equitable judgment and definition towards different social phenomena are really difficult and complicated to delete within a small amount of time even inside a tiny range of location. That’s why human beings are struggling the unique ways which are acceptable within individuals themselves but not suitable for the entire society out because they have to compromise to the wholly social rules as long as they want to step further. Apparently, individuals are really weak so that they have no tremendous and effective influences to change anything about their own behaviors. According to this incapability, society is acting out in its own way which is though based on the summary of individuals’ behaviors but it turns out more like a group-thinking which should obey and perfect the upper-classes’ benefits. That’s how the huge and diverse society has been working so well- just on the basis of the decisions and sole selfishness from a small class of politicians and riches who have totally unimaginable great powers to control almost the ways of social actions. Just considering the races without matters with gender differences, it seems ridiculous to punish any unequal former perspectives because different races built up with different cultures and wealth really have own styles and even have accepted their own social levels and divisions positively. That is to say, looking back for a really long-gone history, race bias has been defined as a natural solution to social classes divisions and people all over the world are potentially willing maybe actually they have to accept the way it is. It is the same way how gender difference works. Invisible strings establish the background of the society which has a large and wide influential impedes for the equal conception to last forever. Regarding people as fish, the society as the water we have to choose to live in, none of us can leave it for a long time though we can flee and escape the environment and regulate own styles for a while; we should confirm that we have to find out a way to come back even if we have discovered what is wrong inside the society or what should be done in eager needs. Only own to the natural fundamental rule that fishes have to live in water, we are the last and un-easiest ones to realize the conditions or stay awaken for a periods. That’s the mysterious sociology, we should try to think like a sociologist though it is kinds of confusions resulting from lots of hidden surprises whatever bad or good. Never doubt the way, it is just what is should be acted.

15 years ago @ World In Conversation - Last Name "X" - Intens... · 1 reply · +1 points

It is really a shock for me to recognize how successful a man is like inside this lifer’s heart. To be honest, I have never met any male in realistic world who have possessed a majority of these significant high qualities even without imaging they can perform a protector, a friend, a lover and a totally open-up guy. To me, it is really precious if there is a guy with a perfect understanding of females’ thoughts, a tremendous respect for females’ well-beings, and a regrettable realization of what he did wrong in early ages. There is no wonder that males have already judged themselves as a priority to females and they have been used to treating females as if they are just something general belonging to themselves. There is a specific tendency for the society to recognize that videos and movies prefer to show women in a way as if they are happy to accept the rude treatments from males with sexual offends and money attractions. As a result, nothing has been set up in people’s minds but a conception that females are best representatives of sex and money. In other words, females are in a ridiculous level which is no more than these two ugly nouns. As a lifer, being in prison for so long a period, with a beautiful acknowledge of what a true man should be like, this man has exceeded common males in the society with advanced respects and protects for females. That is to say, they have considered females whom he loves quite much as his treasure with fulfilling loving and protections. He even regards himself as their closest friends. trying his best to satisfy their needs and curiosities, struggling to find out a way to be the most considerable and suitable Mr. Right to be around. It is supposed to be a man with extreme ethusiasticism to try his best to treat his baby as own whole world. There is no doubt that it is so beautiful and enjoyable for a female to have someones like this to take care of herself in around circumstance because either males or females are defining their potential sites and levels in society. It is just a trend in which people are judging themselves in clear classes with differentiable situations inside the society. Not only males but also females have been used to making judgements with predictions as if females are inferior to males no matter how much harder or longer work they have spent time in. It is just a pre-constructed conception about the views towards two diverse genders. However, it is apparent that this lifer has conveyed himself in a really rare way with so much considerations for females and regard females priore to himself as if he is living to make sure the girl is happy. Successfully, the lifer has got to a position where only few people can achieve so that he has obtained the outstanding knowledges about how to be a right man for a woman and what is the key to be a true man who can bring all kinds of wellbeing to a woman’s entire life. No one can deny to be a 100% perfect man is tremendously hard and even only getting to half of it can also be a tough way. According to the lifer’s basic requirements to be a wonderful man, it is sure that completing all kinds of bases and establishing all the requests with focusing on one girl is unavoidably in great need for a space to premium constructions of self-confidences and self-definitions. In sum. it is really a way available for us to imagine a ideal prince like the lifer appearing in our common life and make it extraordinarily glorious. Neverthless, I quite accept the idea that only being a long time in the dark prison and locked in a small space can stimulating a great imagination for oneself to set up a better attitude towards whatever he has regretted for a long time in premier life.