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7 years ago @ The Toast - An Open Thread, and Se... · 0 replies · +2 points
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Here is a Too Witches playlist to play us out: http://8tracks.com/totheisland/too-witches
(Trying not to cry at work!)
7 years ago @ The Toast - The Toast Looks Back: ... · 0 replies · +4 points
I love her so, so much (and would love to hang out with her and her rescue greyhounds on her farm in NE Vermont)
7 years ago @ The Toast - A Slightly Subdued Ope... · 0 replies · +5 points
I also had underdiagnosed brain issues which placed me in enrichment and honors classes throughout grade school, but torpedoed my GPA once I reached college. I never did finish my degree (left two different schools), and knew I would literally never get to go to grad school and succeed in my area of passion like I knew I could because I was often too overwhelmed by anxiety over mundane assignments and time management make the requisite grades. It's a lot to work through.
Anyway, your writing about that was beautiful, and I'm sorry if I've made this about me. I just want you to know you aren't alone in this. You are still smart (and your therapist is wrong about your ADHD meaning that your parents did not give you appropriate structure/teach sufficient executive functioning skills. ADHD brains genuinely are different)
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I'm fairly bereft, but those feelings will pass. But THANK YOU to everyone involved for making this space exist.
PS: Nicole specifically, I have been encouraged to watch you navigate your faith but also still support feminism and sex workers and a pluralistic society and making space for people to tell their stories, etc. Lots of people tell you faith and these things aren't compatible, and I struggle with that tension in my own Christian community. I have prayed for you on occasion, and will continue to do so. Thanks.