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<title>http://bpytsspot.blogspot.com/ : WHAT I REALIZED BY WATCHING A CARRIE UNDERWOOD INTERVIEW</title>
<link>http://bpytsspot.blogspot.com/2012/08/what-i-realized-by-watching-carrie.html#IDComment429332563</link>
<description>Thank you for reading and leaving a comment @Nfinite5 I appreciate the feedback and you taking time to read the article. Me and my best friend also argue more than we agree sometimes and we discussed this very same article because after telling him I wrote it of course he wanted to put his two cents in like he does with everything I know that people have different experiences and all of that comes into play when you decide to start a relationship with someone I think that a lot of black couples drag their unresolved baggage with them into a relationship which makes it difficult to just bring yourself to the relationship and not all your issues. You can&amp;#39;t have a relationship with someone if you already have trust issues, if you have abuse issues, if you have intimacy issues all of that makes for a�volatile�type of environment that doesn&amp;#39;t foster love you are already setting yourself up for failure from the jump. I also thing if you have had a lot of relationship it can ruin you because that&amp;#39;s how you get all the baggage in the first place. Not everyone is healthy enough to be invited into your life especially relationship wise but a lot of people don&amp;#39;t see that before they jump into something that ruins them potentially. It&amp;#39;s good to choose wisely and guard your heart until you know that the person you are dating is worthy enough to be in your life. </description>
<pubDate>Mon, 27 Aug 2012 14:36:02 +0000</pubDate>
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<title>Madame Noire : HawthoRNe Premiere Overshadowed Racial Issues </title>
<link>http://madamenoire.com/57150/hawthorne-premiere-overshadowed-racial-issues/#IDComment162972956</link>
<description>I feel like the show is an awesome show and the landscape of America has changed so showing a black woman with a white man especially one she has worked with for years is realistic. Plus her first husband was white so we know that her character already leans that way so it is what it is. Every show&amp;#039;s black character is now dating white there are no more black shows on prime time tv, black women are being slandered daily in the news and in every way shape or form and told that we are less attractive in the eyes of others and no one wants us not even our own men so.... it is what it is, I enjoy the show personally so rock on Jada you got one with this show. </description>
<pubDate>Wed, 15 Jun 2011 21:08:52 +0000</pubDate>
<guid>http://madamenoire.com/57150/hawthorne-premiere-overshadowed-racial-issues/#IDComment162972956</guid>
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<title>http://bpytsspot.blogspot.com/ : JUMPING THE BROOM, SHOULD BE CALLED PRETTY PEOPLE F____ERY INSTEAD</title>
<link>http://bpytsspot.blogspot.com/2011/05/jumping-broom-should-be-called-pretty.html#IDComment162451978</link>
<description>OMG yes Clara you are so right on the money with that, the way he disrespected his mother and the way he tried to pacify paula patton&amp;#39;s character was just not hot. I personally thought all the characters were underdeveloped and trivial and basic I know in a movie they can&amp;#39;t give you a lot of depth but those characters could have been so much better IMO and the whole premise of the movie was just flawed and laughable. Thank you for giving your opinion though I hope you come back and read often. </description>
<pubDate>Tue, 14 Jun 2011 03:24:03 +0000</pubDate>
<guid>http://bpytsspot.blogspot.com/2011/05/jumping-broom-should-be-called-pretty.html#IDComment162451978</guid>
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<title>Womanist Musings : There is More to Schwarzenegger&#039;s Affair Than Sex</title>
<link>http://www.womanist-musings.com/2011/05/there-is-more-to-schwarzeneggers-affair.html#IDComment155406721</link>
<description>So let me get this straight this women who was a housekeeper/ personal secretary was victimized and she went on to work there for 20 years so that she could get her retirement, had a son by her employer said it was her then husbands, all while still going to work everyday but she is a victim? The last time I checked victims didn&amp;#039;t stay with their abusers until they could retire. The last time I checked a woman who knowingly claims its her husbands child all the while knowing its not is clearly not playing victim. Her ex-husband knew what was going down because he knew the child wasn&amp;#039;t his and you mean to tell me all between her and her now ex-husband he didn&amp;#039;t come to her aid or try and help her out? Where is the oppression and the victimization that you speak of? </description>
<pubDate>Mon, 23 May 2011 23:52:39 +0000</pubDate>
<guid>http://www.womanist-musings.com/2011/05/there-is-more-to-schwarzeneggers-affair.html#IDComment155406721</guid>
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<title>http://bpytsspot.blogspot.com/ : JUMPING THE BROOM, SHOULD BE CALLED PRETTY PEOPLE F____ERY INSTEAD</title>
<link>http://bpytsspot.blogspot.com/2011/05/jumping-broom-should-be-called-pretty.html#IDComment153196046</link>
<description>Which one you referring to paula patton or the lady that was catering the whole affair? The lady that was the event coordinator was there for comic relief I don&amp;#39;t even think they bothered to even name her character and she was way to comfortable with the people she was supposed to be working for and she wasn&amp;#39;t that professional and at the end she got with deray&amp;#39;s character on the dance floor, it was obvious she got a brotha fetish lol.� </description>
<pubDate>Wed, 18 May 2011 00:16:03 +0000</pubDate>
<guid>http://bpytsspot.blogspot.com/2011/05/jumping-broom-should-be-called-pretty.html#IDComment153196046</guid>
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<title>NerdStickers : Jim Jones Finally Cuts Off His Braids [Photos]</title>
<link>http://www.nerdstickers.net/2011/05/06/jim-jones-finally-cuts-off-his-braids-photos/#IDComment150811432</link>
<description>All I want to know is, is he going to marry his longtime girlfriend?  My recent post &lt;a href=&quot;http:\/\/feedproxy.google.com\/~r\/ABpytsBlog\/~3\/4m86lGMlfJ0\/black-on-black-on-black.html&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;black on black on black&lt;/a&gt; </description>
<pubDate>Tue, 10 May 2011 23:13:46 +0000</pubDate>
<guid>http://www.nerdstickers.net/2011/05/06/jim-jones-finally-cuts-off-his-braids-photos/#IDComment150811432</guid>
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<title>http://bpytsspot.blogspot.com/ : BATTLE LOS ANGELES: A BPYT\&#039;S MOVIE REVIEW</title>
<link>http://bpytsspot.blogspot.com/2011/03/battle-los-angeles-bpyts-movie-review.html#IDComment136392892</link>
<description>Awesome its enjoyable get you some popcorn and cross your ankles relax and enjoy. </description>
<pubDate>Mon, 21 Mar 2011 08:20:03 +0000</pubDate>
<guid>http://bpytsspot.blogspot.com/2011/03/battle-los-angeles-bpyts-movie-review.html#IDComment136392892</guid>
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<title>http://bpytsspot.blogspot.com/ : THINGS I PONDER</title>
<link>http://bpytsspot.blogspot.com/#IDComment132210399</link>
<description>How you find that out? Girl smh I&amp;#39;m not�surprised�about nothing those chicks do smh all this time grinning in her face she don&amp;#39;t feel no shame about herself at all, Evelyn clearly been in it to win it since she got knocked up at a young age she probably was around a lot of ball players until she latched onto one, then he didn&amp;#39;t pan out now she with Chad Johnson smh girl She should do a playboy spread already cause clearly she proud of her body so she should go ahead and let Hugh put her in the magazine and keep it pushing. </description>
<pubDate>Thu, 3 Mar 2011 22:08:05 +0000</pubDate>
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<title>http://bpytsspot.blogspot.com/ : HERE I GO PONDERING SOME THINGS AGAIN</title>
<link>http://bpytsspot.blogspot.com/2011/02/here-i-go-pondering-some-things-again.html#IDComment130505643</link>
<description>But what is her IT factor I mean kim stay whoring herself out and making money I&amp;#39;m not mad at her hustle by any means but I don&amp;#39;t think she is an icon though, but people are now using her as a standard of beauty and as something that men want so what beside a whole lot of hype about nothing is her IT factor? This amber rose chick is just she&amp;#39;s not even hot to me but what do I know I don&amp;#39;t have a penis. </description>
<pubDate>Fri, 25 Feb 2011 06:01:02 +0000</pubDate>
<guid>http://bpytsspot.blogspot.com/2011/02/here-i-go-pondering-some-things-again.html#IDComment130505643</guid>
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<title>http://bpytsspot.blogspot.com/ : HERE I GO PONDERING SOME THINGS AGAIN</title>
<link>http://bpytsspot.blogspot.com/2011/02/here-i-go-pondering-some-things-again.html#IDComment130231190</link>
<description>Well thank you sir but you don&amp;#39;t care to enlighten me on Kim and Amber&amp;#39;s IT factor? </description>
<pubDate>Thu, 24 Feb 2011 03:02:03 +0000</pubDate>
<guid>http://bpytsspot.blogspot.com/2011/02/here-i-go-pondering-some-things-again.html#IDComment130231190</guid>
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<title>http://bpytsspot.blogspot.com/ : MODERN DAY SODOM AND GOMORRAH</title>
<link>http://bpytsspot.blogspot.com/2010/12/modern-day-sodom-and-gomorrah.html#IDComment118925933</link>
<description>Me either smh I still don&amp;#39;t know what to say nor think so many things wrong sigh :-( </description>
<pubDate>Fri, 31 Dec 2010 19:07:02 +0000</pubDate>
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<title>http://bpytsspot.blogspot.com/ : TRUE LIFE LESSONS I WAS SENT HERE TO SHARE WITH Y\&#039;ALL</title>
<link>http://bpytsspot.blogspot.com/2010/12/true-life-lessons-i-was-sent-here-to.html#IDComment118598048</link>
<description>Thank you lady I sure appreciate it. </description>
<pubDate>Wed, 29 Dec 2010 18:51:16 +0000</pubDate>
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<title>http://bpytsspot.blogspot.com/ : TRUE LIFE LESSONS I WAS SENT HERE TO SHARE WITH Y\&#039;ALL</title>
<link>http://bpytsspot.blogspot.com/2010/12/true-life-lessons-i-was-sent-here-to.html#IDComment115411979</link>
<description>Really? Thank you I appreciate that truly more then you will ever know.� </description>
<pubDate>Mon, 13 Dec 2010 08:21:03 +0000</pubDate>
<guid>http://bpytsspot.blogspot.com/2010/12/true-life-lessons-i-was-sent-here-to.html#IDComment115411979</guid>
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<title>http://bpytsspot.blogspot.com/ : B.A.B.Y.M.A.M.A&#039;S &amp; THEIR MELODRAMA</title>
<link>http://bpytsspot.blogspot.com/2010/05/babymamas-their-melodrama.html#IDComment77294549</link>
<description>I &amp;lt;3 you sweetie thank you I appreciate your comment.  </description>
<pubDate>Thu, 27 May 2010 06:35:33 +0000</pubDate>
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<title>http://bpytsspot.blogspot.com/ : CIARA RIDES THE BEAT LIKE IT WAS GOOD D.I.Calvin.Kline</title>
<link>http://bpytsspot.blogspot.com/2010/04/ciara-rides-beat-like-it-was-good.html#IDComment71420393</link>
<description>I know right I was like get it Cici I ain&amp;#039;t even mad at you not in the least. </description>
<pubDate>Fri, 30 Apr 2010 04:29:12 +0000</pubDate>
<guid>http://bpytsspot.blogspot.com/2010/04/ciara-rides-beat-like-it-was-good.html#IDComment71420393</guid>
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<title>Kitty Bradshaw : Flat Chested Women Are Evil!</title>
<link>http://kittybradshaw.com/flat-chested-women-are-evil/#IDComment71040012</link>
<description>I absolutely applaud you in taking this stand and putting your own bra picture up there. I think the commercial is fantastic It&amp;#039;s a classy, sassy commercial unlike those nasty slutted out Victoria Secret commercials those women always look like they are fresh off a steaming penis and they got caught doing their walk of shame in their undergarments. I like my Double D&amp;#039;s and boo to anyone that has anything reckless to say about it. Long live women who look like women and not little flat chested 12 year old boys! </description>
<pubDate>Wed, 28 Apr 2010 05:34:20 +0000</pubDate>
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<title>Candy Diaries : Ask V.I.~ Married Yet Still Single</title>
<link>http://candydiaries.com/ask-v-i-married-yet-still-single/#IDComment66891520</link>
<description>This is sad as hell and speaks to the times that we are in, this man is clearly in pain and I think he wants to hurt his wife back so he came here to let her know hey broad two can play the same game. I think its sad when two people who have walked down the aisle get in this type of situation and don&amp;#039;t, or won&amp;#039;t, or can&amp;#039;t work back from it. When she cheated and when you caught her was the time to make some decisions, and try and work it out. Staying so she don&amp;#039;t get half your assets is just ass backwards and putting this other woman in the mix because she is &amp;quot;exotic&amp;quot; is just more ugliness manifesting itself because again you have been hurt. None of what you are doing is healthy hurt people, turn around and hurt people themselves. You can not hope to build anything on an unhealthy foundation you can&amp;#039;t string this other woman along and use her as your escape because your wife chose to be a slore and you stayed with her. I hope you guys don&amp;#039;t have kids because honestly both of you, your wife and yourself seem like two very selfish and ugly inside individuals.  Perhaps you got married to soon whatever the case you need to get in a better head and heart space because clearly you aren&amp;#039;t making decisions in the best interest of anyone.    Take a break go away from this woman and your wife and get some clarity.  Go to whatever higher power you believe in and just take the time to do some soul searching and if at the end of that you believe your actions are still the best then so be it. As far as you worrying about letting her get half your assets you can always declare bankruptcy *shrugs* </description>
<pubDate>Fri, 9 Apr 2010 23:00:14 +0000</pubDate>
<guid>http://candydiaries.com/ask-v-i-married-yet-still-single/#IDComment66891520</guid>
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<title>http://bpytsspot.blogspot.com/ : LET\&#039;S GET CARRIED AWAY, 2nd TRAILER FOR S.I.T.C. 2</title>
<link>http://bpytsspot.blogspot.com/2010/04/lets-get-carried-away-2nd-trailer-for.html#IDComment66878264</link>
<description>Yay Dulce thank you again for the books I sent you the check so look for it through snail mail. I can&amp;#039;t wait just to see what fashion she is going to wear I can&amp;#039;t stand that they are just so fabulous but I love it all the same.  Happy friday to you as well and enjoy your weekend.:D </description>
<pubDate>Fri, 9 Apr 2010 21:33:11 +0000</pubDate>
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<title>http://bpytsspot.blogspot.com/ : LET\&#039;S GET CARRIED AWAY, 2nd TRAILER FOR S.I.T.C. 2</title>
<link>http://bpytsspot.blogspot.com/2010/04/lets-get-carried-away-2nd-trailer-for.html#IDComment66877898</link>
<description>Thanks Cleo It was 2am when I wrote this so I was so sleepy and groggy lol. </description>
<pubDate>Fri, 9 Apr 2010 21:31:04 +0000</pubDate>
<guid>http://bpytsspot.blogspot.com/2010/04/lets-get-carried-away-2nd-trailer-for.html#IDComment66877898</guid>
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<title>http://bpytsspot.blogspot.com/ : GOOD GIRL GONE BAD; EX-CHEETAH GIRL ADDITION</title>
<link>http://bpytsspot.blogspot.com/2010/04/good-girl-gone-bad-ex-cheetah-girl.html#IDComment66521471</link>
<description>Exactly what I said smh  </description>
<pubDate>Thu, 8 Apr 2010 05:27:53 +0000</pubDate>
<guid>http://bpytsspot.blogspot.com/2010/04/good-girl-gone-bad-ex-cheetah-girl.html#IDComment66521471</guid>
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