en-us https://www.intensedebate.com/users/261775 Comments by Teems http://allocationofsolitude.blogspot.com/2009/07/relationship-equation.html#IDComment26515399 Mmmhmmn A lot of people think they can maintain their selfishness in a relationship and take the "me time" and "my needs" too far. And I think people look for perfection in a relationship instead of that balance.People should figure out their priorities and how their variables will add to 100. The variables don't scare me much. They should represent the obstacles you will face as you grow. Nothings prefect. I think if there is commitment on both ends you can get it back to as close to 100 as possible. Math is not my strongest subject- I could care less. And here you have me talking like I am confident anything I just said made sense. lmao On a side note, can I fed ex you my ipod to fill? You seem like you got a good section! j/k hahaha. Tue, 7 Jul 2009 02:33:26 +0000 http://allocationofsolitude.blogspot.com/2009/07/relationship-equation.html#IDComment26515399 http://allocationofsolitude.blogspot.com/2009/07/king-of-music.html#IDComment26195957 Great work. Yea, I feel bad that he was the laughing stock for the purpose of making careers out of his career. Media and Impersonators. That's the price of fame. I commend him for at least staying humbled through it all. Fri, 3 Jul 2009 05:49:21 +0000 http://allocationofsolitude.blogspot.com/2009/07/king-of-music.html#IDComment26195957 http://allocationofsolitude.blogspot.com/2009/06/interracial.html#IDComment24853397 I have never dates white but i have puertorican and half Asian. Not too out box but still. My family is diverse. especially on my moms side. Before my grandma my family was 100 venezualian and scottish. So I do think its totally racist to be against interracial dating. But preference is a difference story... The Mr. 's mom always says "if she cant use your comb...dont bring her home" I hate that. And when its not about that....its light vs dark skinned issue. I hate that Sat, 20 Jun 2009 01:52:33 +0000 http://allocationofsolitude.blogspot.com/2009/06/interracial.html#IDComment24853397 http://allocationofsolitude.blogspot.com/2009/05/opposite-sex-best-friend.html#IDComment22715015 Wow. That's crazy. even If I didn't like the legitimately best friend, I would still make sure they were invited to the wedding. That's life for you. I would hate to have my spouse resent me because I made him not invite someone I assume he cared about. I think there are some cases where friendships should be sacrificed for health of the relationship. But this didn't sound like one of those issues. I haven't had a GOOD male friend in a long time. They always seem to have different intentions. So for now I think I am gonna forget about having best friends of the opposite sex. Doesn't work for me. Actually same sex best friends don't work for me either. lol At least I have my fiancee... Sat, 30 May 2009 04:34:19 +0000 http://allocationofsolitude.blogspot.com/2009/05/opposite-sex-best-friend.html#IDComment22715015 http://allocationofsolitude.blogspot.com/2009/05/blogging-conundrum.html#IDComment22701922 Yea its hard. I know what you mean. I feel like the people who know me and read don't even comment. They just lurk ing....waiting for me to say something about them. I have thought about creating one and not telling anyone but I would still like to keep a few old readers. Please don't go. You don't have to write all the time. Keep it neutral....I know that's whack... but I need to being completely bias for the betterment of your readers like myself. LOL Sat, 30 May 2009 03:13:21 +0000 http://allocationofsolitude.blogspot.com/2009/05/blogging-conundrum.html#IDComment22701922 http://allocationofsolitude.blogspot.com/2009/04/reciprocity.html#IDComment18385421 I'm not much of a taker or a giver. I am very picky about what and who I give to. That is a gooooo idea. I want a blog refresh myself. And I kind of want to remove a lot of the old posts. I didn't know you can put things back into draft after its been published. You must show me. Wed, 8 Apr 2009 22:10:58 +0000 http://allocationofsolitude.blogspot.com/2009/04/reciprocity.html#IDComment18385421 http://allocationofsolitude.blogspot.com/2009/04/back-like-crooked-crack.html#IDComment18341897 Wow big news! I have been ghost myself so I didn't notice exceeeeeeeopt on twitter. lol I though you were progressing on there?? hahaha I can believe I am going hard on there now....people I know use it, so I am stuck!. TTYL! Wed, 8 Apr 2009 04:00:35 +0000 http://allocationofsolitude.blogspot.com/2009/04/back-like-crooked-crack.html#IDComment18341897 http://allocationofsolitude.blogspot.com/2009/03/mrs-me-too-death-of-blog.html#IDComment16832917 BRAVO... I don't know if I said this before I will say this again... I saw people talk about certain kinds of blogs and then comment all over the same kind saying "I love your blog" ...but wait, didn't you just say you don't like those kind of blogs. This person clearly took shots at this person's hobby and then "smiled" on their comments. People are dick riding because they want readers. Afraid if they don't say what people want see...then they wont have readers...who cares? This is definitely a popularity contest...some actually wanting real fans!' and the award goes to...... Teems...out! lol Thu, 12 Mar 2009 23:09:16 +0000 http://allocationofsolitude.blogspot.com/2009/03/mrs-me-too-death-of-blog.html#IDComment16832917 http://allocationofsolitude.blogspot.com/2009/03/way-back-machine-1995.html#IDComment16675276 we can always count on you! Good stuff! And you get extra cool points for my uncle's first major record being played on your play list at the same time! (not an artist but a producer) hehe Tue, 10 Mar 2009 03:01:26 +0000 http://allocationofsolitude.blogspot.com/2009/03/way-back-machine-1995.html#IDComment16675276 http://allocationofsolitude.blogspot.com/2009/02/absence-of-evidence-is-not-evidence-of.html#IDComment15879263 AND LOVE LOVE LOVE THAT VIDEO AND SONG.... IT IS ONE OF MY FAVEEEEEES! Fri, 27 Feb 2009 18:18:24 +0000 http://allocationofsolitude.blogspot.com/2009/02/absence-of-evidence-is-not-evidence-of.html#IDComment15879263 http://allocationofsolitude.blogspot.com/2009/02/absence-of-evidence-is-not-evidence-of.html#IDComment15879237 Yup you still got it! LMAO @ "cheesy nerdy grin" but I can totally see your blog with the sepia feel. Still like this one though. ROTFL @ Dayton, Ohio comment.... "come out and plaaaay". The black girl on RW is a pageant girl, what more can you expect? I'm with you the bandwagon thing. For many its about popularity. Writing what you think the fans will love rather than being yourself. That whole "the game needs me" and "if it weren't for you, there would be no me" mentality! lol Dont even get me started on the Google friend thing...I thought it was some mistake and I kept rereshing my page like a twiiter fiend! Fri, 27 Feb 2009 18:17:36 +0000 http://allocationofsolitude.blogspot.com/2009/02/absence-of-evidence-is-not-evidence-of.html#IDComment15879237 http://allocationofsolitude.blogspot.com/2009/02/no-letting-go-no-holding-back.html#IDComment15774308 This was awesome! I had to "erase" all of my exes in order to move on. Wed, 25 Feb 2009 04:30:49 +0000 http://allocationofsolitude.blogspot.com/2009/02/no-letting-go-no-holding-back.html#IDComment15774308 http://allocationofsolitude.blogspot.com/2009/02/1100.html#IDComment15518991 Loved this post! Thanks for the shout out! Much love. I feel the same way. I have been blogging for about the same amount of time if not longer. I started with myspace. Since all I did on myspace was write blogs, I quit to come here. Even though none of my original readers are still around, I have no regrets. You all are great! :-) Fri, 20 Feb 2009 05:13:44 +0000 http://allocationofsolitude.blogspot.com/2009/02/1100.html#IDComment15518991 http://allocationofsolitude.blogspot.com/2009/02/inequality-that-is-valentines-day.html#IDComment14914936 Well I was always jealous because I never gotten a gift from someone I liked. lol It was always a secret admirer. But yea my man and I will be together but no gifts that is what our anniversary and bdays are for. We much rather celebrate our love throughout the entire year rather than one day. I think they ones that go over bored do it in guilt. :-X Tue, 10 Feb 2009 06:22:46 +0000 http://allocationofsolitude.blogspot.com/2009/02/inequality-that-is-valentines-day.html#IDComment14914936 http://allocationofsolitude.blogspot.com/2009/02/representin.html#IDComment14765067 Yea, women do the same stuff... Some try to use "men" as an excuse but either way, infidelity is a choice. Whether you followed your hormones or emotions. People you date is a choice has well. Many of the times we choose the "wrong" people with all the signs in front of us. Its just unfortunate that it is often acceptable and expected of men because that assumption allows many women to get away with dirt. We do need more men represented on blogger. Makes for actual discussion rather than bashing. I think that is why girls bash because they only have a one sided view... therefore their opinions reflect the same. Thu, 5 Feb 2009 01:45:56 +0000 http://allocationofsolitude.blogspot.com/2009/02/representin.html#IDComment14765067 http://allocationofsolitude.blogspot.com/2009/02/book-of-rhymes.html#IDComment14727272 My last blog was about this same thing but I doubt I will ever share snippets Because I think I sound pathetic. Yours bad. This was cool to see all the things that are going on in your mind. Tue, 3 Feb 2009 16:45:25 +0000 http://allocationofsolitude.blogspot.com/2009/02/book-of-rhymes.html#IDComment14727272 http://allocationofsolitude.blogspot.com/2009/01/you-know-what-really-grinds-my-gears.html#IDComment14232500 Honestly Charles, There is no logical answer other than the fact that people are noesy, full of themselves and like getting information in the simplest form.____truthfully, I dont have fun on there... at all... I seriously try. But no one on there cares about what im doing..saying..asking except 1/3 and this other guy on an occassional basis. lol.... Even so, I do it just because... However I cant get busy with it like others. Some can be on there for HOURS "twittering".____As for you.... I get why you dont like it but not why you are so mad. If you dont use it it shouldnt bother you but im guessing at this point you just hate the word. lol Thu, 22 Jan 2009 05:59:55 +0000 http://allocationofsolitude.blogspot.com/2009/01/you-know-what-really-grinds-my-gears.html#IDComment14232500 http://allocationofsolitude.blogspot.com/2008/12/things-ill-never-understand.html#IDComment13127283 Yea I joined twitter last week....I think it sucks! I try to embrace it but It sucks! I can update my status on myspace and facebook (if I still had those accounts). My blog is censored. Not a total refection of my life and the things that I want to say. If people are still coming to our blogs and don’t like it its basically for self torture and they deserver it! You hit the follower thing on the nose. Its nice to have faithful readers but it should be about the comments and interactions. To many people followers represents popularity. Therefore if you have 2 followers....you are not worth it and no one cares. I enjoy the concept but I agree it has been abused. I don’t follow 100 just the people I interact with and actually ENJOY reading. I couldn’t possibly care or have the time to care about 600 people. Especially if they are talking about the same stuff. Once I get a job I wont be following even the 20 ppl I have now Sat, 27 Dec 2008 06:14:43 +0000 http://allocationofsolitude.blogspot.com/2008/12/things-ill-never-understand.html#IDComment13127283 http://allocationofsolitude.blogspot.com/2008/12/taste-of-you.html#IDComment12997844 Im with12kyle. I was in a different world...about to sign off blogger and whatnot. haha Tue, 23 Dec 2008 05:58:10 +0000 http://allocationofsolitude.blogspot.com/2008/12/taste-of-you.html#IDComment12997844 http://allocationofsolitude.blogspot.com/2008/12/wanna-be-better-man-for-you.html#IDComment12886012 The space invader found your new blog? Probably tracking on of our blogrolls or something. Sun, 21 Dec 2008 22:30:01 +0000 http://allocationofsolitude.blogspot.com/2008/12/wanna-be-better-man-for-you.html#IDComment12886012