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Precision Change: Technologies for Transformation : How much personal power is enough?

Thu, 7 Aug 2008 10:30:36 +0000

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Precision Change: Technologies for Transformation : How much personal power is enough?

Thu, 7 Aug 2008 10:20:36 +0000

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Precision Change: Technologies for Transformation : How much personal power is enough?

Wed, 6 Aug 2008 20:56:05 +0000

I can relate to this. I have gone through a lot of adjustments of self confidence and how I bring it out. First I had none. Then I developed it into a fairly healthy amount. Then I noticed that my friend had none, so in order to give her more space and opportunities to shine, I diminished myself to smaller than what I really was. Of course this didn't help my friend in the end, but just put me in a very bad emotional state. I had been suppressing myself for quite some time, until it all came out with a huge burst. I call this my narcissistic phase, and not surprisingly I then made friends with a woman who was a full blown narcissist or just someone in the same situation. (I think the former.) She certainly inflated my narcissistic tendencies and I may have done the same to her I don't know. I just know, that somewhere there I went overboard and I am readjusting myself, still, I may have gone too far back again, not very much back, fortunately, but too much. I guess my wakeup call came when I said something to a complete stranger, and then a second later realised I was way out of line...