en-us https://www.intensedebate.com/users/99623 Comments by Rishi http://linux04.f5key.com/2008/08/simplify-your-life-delete-unwanted.html#IDComment4340363 Jonathan Hi !! It is a nice post and definitely has deep insight.. what i felt after I visualized situations in my life is that for many situations I can adopt your four step suggested method and get away with a happier and lighter mind.. But there are situations when if you ignore unwanted commitments you may be considered as a less social form of human being or you even might get into the "List Of People I hate" for many people around you... Now I would suggest an addition to theory that when somethin like what i said happens you must ask one more question to yourself " Do I care in which list people keep me ? ".. Shanel's Idea of "May Be" is somewhat more practical I believe .. But believe me I have always wanted to say NO to things I don't want to do.. But Have failed more than 50 percent of times .. And I believe most of us have failed too... Mon, 11 Aug 2008 02:36:19 +0000 http://linux04.f5key.com/2008/08/simplify-your-life-delete-unwanted.html#IDComment4340363