en-us https://www.intensedebate.com/users/336220 Comments by Pisceshanna http://mssinglemama.com/2009/04/09/single-mom-friday-zen-iv/#IDComment18513583 OMG Spike Jonze is directing it????? AHHHHH I'm so there! I think it will probably make me cry, but that just makes it so much better doesn't it? Fri, 10 Apr 2009 22:02:59 +0000 http://mssinglemama.com/2009/04/09/single-mom-friday-zen-iv/#IDComment18513583 http://mssinglemama.com/2009/04/08/father-figure/#IDComment18457332 Well, I thought mine would never change. I thought he would fight me tooth and nail for joint custody, let his girlfriend verbally abuse me and throw tantrums whenever he could. Today he signed my custody papers. We were able to come to a compromise. So, I guess miracles CAN happen? Thu, 9 Apr 2009 21:56:43 +0000 http://mssinglemama.com/2009/04/08/father-figure/#IDComment18457332 http://mssinglemama.com/2009/03/31/you-had-me-at-hell/#IDComment17978260 Wow as a feminst, I'm ashamed someone tried to hide behind that title while trashing another woman. As a single mom, once again we have to defend abilities as mothers. Maybe one day barbara will wake up and see that the rest of the world is leaving her behind in her ignorance, while the rest of us get on with our lvies. Wed, 1 Apr 2009 19:38:44 +0000 http://mssinglemama.com/2009/03/31/you-had-me-at-hell/#IDComment17978260 http://mssinglemama.com/2009/03/30/oh-yeah-baby/#IDComment17931773 You may not have turned 30 on the 30th, but I think this birthday is about as golden as it gets! Can't wait to see your adventure videos on Ford.com Tue, 31 Mar 2009 21:26:49 +0000 http://mssinglemama.com/2009/03/30/oh-yeah-baby/#IDComment17931773 http://mssinglemama.com/2009/03/27/single-mom-friday-zen-ii/#IDComment17707568 Wow that camera takes a doosey of a picture! Of course its your artistic expression as well :) Fri, 27 Mar 2009 19:03:16 +0000 http://mssinglemama.com/2009/03/27/single-mom-friday-zen-ii/#IDComment17707568 http://mssinglemama.com/2009/03/26/single-and-fabulous/#IDComment17637890 OMG I can't wait to see you in a magazine! I guess I won't be able to unless its online, but oh well, I'm still excited. We single mamas are definitely smokin' our own pipe of fabulousness. Thu, 26 Mar 2009 18:54:27 +0000 http://mssinglemama.com/2009/03/26/single-and-fabulous/#IDComment17637890 http://mssinglemama.com/2009/03/17/austin/#IDComment17190535 Ha ha Texas. I'm a Coloradan, so we have a love-hate relationship with Texas. We consider Texans invading locusts who come to feed on snow and elk hunting, but end up stranding their Hummers on the sides of mountains, and mistakenly shooting cows in someone's backyard. (No Offense Tonya! We also have that bumper sticker in Colorado) I have met some really great people from Texas, so I can't say I buy into the Colorado snobbery completely. Wed, 18 Mar 2009 16:32:54 +0000 http://mssinglemama.com/2009/03/17/austin/#IDComment17190535 http://mssinglemama.com/2009/03/12/isabelles-story/#IDComment16827987 I just think its pointless to say "Well, maybe you SHOULD have done this, instead of this.." Single parents need to move on, and help each other along the way. Alaina, you keep on sending out those positive vibes, because thats what we need the most. Thu, 12 Mar 2009 20:25:14 +0000 http://mssinglemama.com/2009/03/12/isabelles-story/#IDComment16827987 http://mssinglemama.com/2009/03/12/isabelles-story/#IDComment16823526 We single moms are here to support each other, and that means positively cheering each other on, even when we feel discouraged a hopeless. Mssinglemama was doing just that. We know there are bigots and small-minded, ignorant people out there. Thanks for confiming it! All we can do is keep on proving you wrong by raising awesome kids and being great members of society. Your comment brought nothing to enlighten us single moms, just reaffirmed the sad opinion of so many people who think that in a similar situation, they would have "known better". Thu, 12 Mar 2009 18:46:09 +0000 http://mssinglemama.com/2009/03/12/isabelles-story/#IDComment16823526 http://mssinglemama.com/2009/03/12/isabelles-story/#IDComment16823483 Rising above the pain of abandonment and empowering the single mom is what this world needs, not judgement, guilt and shame from outsiders. You can forever bemoan your past actions, accuse someone of not taking responsibility, but honetly what does that accomplish? NOTHING. I had sex with a "bad boy", yes, I have regrets (who doesn't), but because my daughter's father was an a**hole suddenly means I'm blaming him for everything? I don't think so. HE needs to take responsibility too. I'm following up every day for my actions, by being a good mom and raising my daughter in a healthy, happy home. I'm not running off to find a "good guy" to fill my ex's place. How dare you belittle us with that gross generalizations. Thu, 12 Mar 2009 18:46:02 +0000 http://mssinglemama.com/2009/03/12/isabelles-story/#IDComment16823483 http://mssinglemama.com/2009/03/12/isabelles-story/#IDComment16812671 Wow isn't it crazy how many people you've "met" through blogging? Can't wait to hear the rest of the story. Thu, 12 Mar 2009 14:44:39 +0000 http://mssinglemama.com/2009/03/12/isabelles-story/#IDComment16812671 http://mssinglemama.com/2009/03/11/questions/#IDComment16760270 Oh Man Alaina, thats so hard. LB doesn't ask for her daddy, but she does talk about him a lot more, and his girlfriend, and her "sisters". I hate everything about it, but I have to just play along because I know its important to her. You think little B would enjoy talking to his daddy on the phone, if you could get a hold of him? Ugh, its so damn exhausting. I feel you. Wed, 11 Mar 2009 14:38:29 +0000 http://mssinglemama.com/2009/03/11/questions/#IDComment16760270 http://mssinglemama.com/2009/03/04/single-mom-love-news/#IDComment16231996 I heart mommypie too. I feel her pain, living in Podunk Mountain towns. Thu, 5 Mar 2009 17:03:57 +0000 http://mssinglemama.com/2009/03/04/single-mom-love-news/#IDComment16231996