en-us https://www.intensedebate.com/users/561476 Comments by Nancyleeg <span><a href="http://www.beatschindler.com/success-strategies/the-reality-principle" class="smarterwiki-linkify">http://www.beatschindler.com/success-strategies/the-re#IDComment23820504 so how does is-ness fit in with the spirit? Wed, 10 Jun 2009 18:39:55 +0000 <span><a href="http://www.beatschindler.com/success-strategies/the-reality-principle" class="smarterwiki-linkify">http://www.beatschindler.com/success-strategies/the-re#IDComment23820504 <span><a href="http://www.beatschindler.com/success-strategies/the-reality-principle" class="smarterwiki-linkify">http://www.beatschindler.com/success-strategies/the-re#IDComment23773643 I don&#039;t know the term &quot;is-ness&quot; - could you clarify for me? Wed, 10 Jun 2009 04:31:57 +0000 <span><a href="http://www.beatschindler.com/success-strategies/the-reality-principle" class="smarterwiki-linkify">http://www.beatschindler.com/success-strategies/the-re#IDComment23773643 <span><a href="http://www.beatschindler.com/success-strategies/the-reality-principle" class="smarterwiki-linkify">http://www.beatschindler.com/success-strategies/the-re#IDComment23692396 Reality is an individual&#039;s perception. Who is to say whose perception is right. Of course, there are folks out there whose mindsets may be completely delutionsal or fanatical and most of the &quot;norm&quot; would see their perception so skewed as to be irrational and not reality based. As far as should haves and could haves, which I agree are counter-productive, does not necessarity mean that a person does not believe in a higher power or higher intelligence governing their lives and world. It would seem that the world is more grey than black and white. It&#039;s my belief that no one is ever at the same level of &quot;intelligence&quot; - communion with our higher power, and therefore everyone&#039;s reality will never be the same. Perhaps some folks aren&#039;t resisting the reality principle, they just have to sift the reality they allow in their lives in order to survive. Tue, 9 Jun 2009 04:45:42 +0000 <span><a href="http://www.beatschindler.com/success-strategies/the-reality-principle" class="smarterwiki-linkify">http://www.beatschindler.com/success-strategies/the-re#IDComment23692396 http://www.beatschindler.com/success-strategies/wrongpath#IDComment23610485 wrong path - have to be home at a certain time to watch your T.V. program feel the need to spy on your significant other because you don&#039;t trust don&#039;t leave the house even though you&#039;re not agoraphobic you know you&#039;re the only one who can do things right you don&#039;t believe you are blessed Mon, 8 Jun 2009 01:49:10 +0000 http://www.beatschindler.com/success-strategies/wrongpath#IDComment23610485