Momthra
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7 years ago @ The Toast - An Open Thread, and Se... · 1 reply · +35 points
7 years ago @ The Toast - A note on The Toast · 0 replies · +37 points
7 years ago @ The Toast - Open Thread! · 0 replies · +9 points
7 years ago @ The Toast - Open Thread! · 2 replies · +7 points
I think then you just have to decide how long you're prepared to wait for that to happen.
7 years ago @ The Toast - Open Thread! · 0 replies · +10 points
So we talked and talked and I guess got engaged? But in my head, we're not yet because he's buying a ring (from one of my best friends who is a jewelry designer, but she doesn't know that I know so I've only given him general input and am not making detailed decisions) and I told him that while I don't need a "proposal," I do really want a defining moment of some kind. We also haven't told anyone other than our parents because the December plan is basically an elopement - which is a different story.
All that to say, I think you could still say "I'd like to get married to you someday soon" without ruining any surprises.
7 years ago @ The Toast - Cocktail Hour: Open Th... · 0 replies · +7 points
I also bought a pair of clogs and wore them and loved them. Oh, my toasts!
7 years ago @ The Toast - Cocktail Hour: Open Th... · 5 replies · +111 points
"We were on a cruise to Mexico and I met her the first night, we just talked a lot and kissed but we didn't really hook up... and then when we got to Mexico... I was at the whorehouse... fucking this hooker..."
So I walked over to the window and - from my living room - asked "hey guys, is this a conversation you could have somewhere else?"
They were very obviously embarrassed and I felt very good about myself. AND THEN, that evening they came to my door together with literal hats in hand to apologize. I thanked them for apologizing and couldn't help but feel some pleasure that they might carry this shame forever.
8 years ago @ The Toast - Cocktail Hour: Open Th... · 0 replies · +2 points
So if you want more responses, maybe consider a softer profile? Or you can decide that this is a good thing and figure that having them opt out is a good thing in the end.
8 years ago @ The Toast - Cocktail Hour: Open Th... · 0 replies · +9 points
8 years ago @ The Toast - Friday Open Thread! · 0 replies · +1 points