en-us https://www.intensedebate.com/users/526467 Comments by Miss_Wright http://www.ragamuffinsoul.com/2009/04/does-your-wife-know-who-you-think-is-hot/#IDComment20519342 disclaimer: I am a single young woman in the church and have no marital experience. Nonetheless... - I think the words "hot" and "smokin'" carry a lot of baggage and are almost immediately associated with sexual meaning. In this case, I believe that the Bible is clear on the issue. - I believe that appreciating God's creation (even humans) is a form of worship, but only when the Creator is worshipped, not the creation. - The motives of the heart matter the most to God. This is where you define sin issues. Talking about someone else's "hot" factor in sheer appreciation for beauty probably isn't a sin issue. However, referencing what you like to see for the sake of your own pleasure probably has more selfish desires/motives than anything else. That is sin. It's probably different for each person in each circumstance. Sun, 3 May 2009 21:03:12 +0000 http://www.ragamuffinsoul.com/2009/04/does-your-wife-know-who-you-think-is-hot/#IDComment20519342