en-us https://www.intensedebate.com/users/279694 Comments by Maxzy http://livewithoutconflict.com/blog/what-makes-a-relationship-healthy-and-when-is-it-abusive/#IDComment12300108 I agree with you Teresia. You will definately loose yourself and your unique identity when you are caught in an unhealthy relationship. Its a tendecy for the partner not carrying the baggage (which may include, lowself-esteem, guilt, disappointment, unaccomplished life goals, unreslove trauma etc,) to be constanly giving up of himself/herself to maintain some degree of functionong in the relationship. Tue, 9 Dec 2008 01:25:00 +0000 http://livewithoutconflict.com/blog/what-makes-a-relationship-healthy-and-when-is-it-abusive/#IDComment12300108