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15 years ago @ World In Conversation - Were you surprised to ... · 0 replies · +1 points
It’s a very interesting dilemma. On the one hand, I want the available jobs in this country to go to our citizens. We have a high enough unemployment rate as it is, and it’s just made worse by jobs going to people here illegally. I don’t mean to sound insensitive to people searching for a better life than what they have. In fact, I recognize that this country was founded on that principle. And I know that we have a certain level of responsibility to take in people wanting a better life. In fact, it’s written on the Statue of Liberty.
On the other hand, I know that if we didn’t have a certain amount of cheap labor in this country, it would also negatively affect unemployment rates because businesses wouldn’t be able to afford workers. So it’s kind of six in one hand, half a dozen in the other. We need business to be open and to thrive to strengthen our economy, and we want all of our citizens to be able to find jobs within those businesses. Unfortunately, with our employment policies, that’s an impossible combination to have. Therefore, of course businesses are going to have some pull when it comes to immigration policy. Legislators want and need a strong economy. But they also take a lot of flack from other citizens who want our borders more secure. So they are straddling that very fine line of making it more difficult for illegal aliens to cross over our borders, while still fueling our country’s businesses with the cheap labor they need to stay operational.
I don’t know what the proper answer is. It’s a really touchy subject. I’ve known illegal aliens; some of whom I wouldn’t want to have to go back to their country. But I recognize the need to control our growing population. I suppose I find some solace in the fact that I’m not the only one who doesn’t know the answer. Nobody really does.
15 years ago @ World In Conversation - What do you think abou... · 0 replies · +1 points
I wonder what I would want. I think about rough spots I’ve been in in my life (obviously I’m not comparing any hardships I’ve endured to those that poor or starving people endure. I recognize the vast difference in scale). The rougher ones, that warranted the need for help, induced feelings of helplessness. When you feel helpless, it can get to a point where you don’t care what you have to give up to get help, you just want to get rid of the troubles. However, there’s also a propensity for feeling regret after the fact. The very few times I’ve gotten to my “breaking point,” whether emotionally, mentally, or financially, and I’ve reached out for help, I had feelings of regret after the fact for not being able to overcome the problem on my own. However, like I said, my problems are minute compared to those of impoverished and starving people. I feel almost foolish for even using myself as a comparison, but I have nothing else to go off of. So, perhaps there wouldn’t be feelings of regret for the help provided, or for allowing themselves to be “exploited.” It’s kind of a silly thing for us, more fortunate people, to decide what is and is not acceptable to show when asking for aid. Have anyone asked the people being videotaped what they think? I think that’s the biggest issue. If we are just going over there with cameras and not asking how people feel about it, then that’s the biggest exploitation of all. We’re not treating them with consideration and dignity they deserve. I think maybe if I were to be in there shoes, and was asked how I felt about the cameras, I might ask why it would be necessary to show me sitting on the street, filthy, when I’m feeling at my lowest. Why couldn’t I be allowed to clean up and speak directly into the camera and explain the hardships I go through?
And again, the flip side is that maybe at my lowest, I care more about being helped as quickly as possible and if the Americans seem to think that this is the best way to get people to help, then I don’t want to mess with that winning formula. I just want help.
15 years ago @ World In Conversation - Would you point out th... · 0 replies · +1 points
I’ve continued to think about this since we discussed it in my group, and this blog post made me want to share where I am in my thinking process. I can definitely say this issue has made me want to be better. I should never stand idly by while people slander other races unjustly. There are prejudices out there, and don’t get me wrong, I believe everyone has them to some degree. Regardless of what race you are, or how open minded you think you are, you have some preconceived notions about people based on your own experiences or other peoples’ accounts. And we tend to take those experiences or accounts and generalize it across the race of the offending person. And those generalizations turn into gossip, inappropriate jokes, or the avoidance of a particular race.
I believe the only way to change this cycle is to prove each other wrong. And this starts with the way we handle situations where racists slurs and comments are being said in our presence. I think lashing out is the wrong thing to do. While reasoning doesn’t always work with the unreasonable, we have to take our cue from the great Dr. Martin Luther King. We must face racism in whatever form it takes today with peaceful resolve and thoughtful reasoning.
So my intention now is to start taking action. To make a conscious effort to help the progress of a more peaceful human relationship in whatever small way I can. By respectfully interrupting a conversation speckled with racism and explain the flaws in their viewpoint could perhaps be the small contribution that makes the greater difference. I don’t expect to be able to completely change the way someone thinks, but if I can get someone to just think about what they’ve said, I think that is a win. And maybe, just maybe, they’ll pay it forward.
15 years ago @ World In Conversation - What do you think of t... · 0 replies · +1 points
I’ve had the experience here of other students telling me that this school is so diverse. When I ask where they come from, they’ll usually answer with someplace way off the diversity spectrum. I’ve even been told that I’m the first Jew that they’ve met. That’s astonishing to me. I’m just so used to being around a very diverse population. When I decided to take SOC 119, I just assumed it would be material that wouldn’t be new to me. “I’ve been around it all,” I thought. But seeing some of what still goes on this country is somewhat disconcerting. Not just the blatant racism, but the lack of exposure a lot of my student peers have to different races and cultures.
I did have one personal “seclusion” experience when I was younger that I shared in my discussion group. I went to a private elementary school in a fairly wealthy neighborhood. I didn’t live there myself, but my parents worked extremely hard to keep us out of the Los Angeles public school system. It was a small school with only about 100 kids. One of whom was black. Who happened to be my best friend. Even with the blatant discrepancy, I never noticed that this was the case. But I also didn’t view my friend as being different. He was just one of the other kids in the school. And he was my friend. One day when he was over at my house and we made plans to go to college together. Mind you, we were in 3rd grade. He informed me that he wanted to go to Howard University, a predominantly black university. And I, oblivious to what Howard University was at that age, said “sure, whatever. As long as we go together.” I then ran to tell my mom, who is very liberal, and all I remember is her smiling, obviously knowing what Howard was. I wish there was that form of innocence remained through adulthood.
15 years ago @ World In Conversation - Freedom · 0 replies · +2 points
I enjoyed the prisoner’s insight into freedom being a state of mind, a thought process, a way of acting towards people. I’ll get back to that in a moment, but I do wonder if his/her viewpoint is somewhat of a coping mechanism resulting from being incarcerated. However, I suppose it’s also possible for a simpler life, such as being confined to one place, allows for greater clarity of what’s important and what really makes one free. I’m not sure what the answer is to that. In fact, I’m not sure if a true answer can be formulated from that question.
Going back to state of mind and thought process idea, I think there is a peace of mind that can be acquired from engaging in a particular state of mind, thinking in a certain way, and acting in a particular fashion towards others. This is freedom. Or perhaps freedom to a certain degree. After all, can you ever be completely free? I’ll get back to that in a moment, but I want to talk about the idea of acting a certain way towards people as a means of finding freedom. I like this idea. I strive to build and maintain positive and meaningful relationships with people. I see people that are unable or unwilling to treat others respectfully, or enjoy the company of others, and you can tell they’re living in some form of prison. They are missing a major outlet. It may be somewhat counterintuitive, but companionship, in whatever form, can be very freeing. The sense of knowing that you’re not alone is very freeing. Being alone in your thoughts and actions can be very restrictive. People that provide an outlet for thoughts and feelings act as a receptacle for those thoughts and feelings that may have become trapped.
Finally, going back to the question of whether or not we can be completely free. I don’t believe there is a correct answer to this question. Is there a way one can ever know if they are completely free of all vices? Is the refusal of material possessions that a monk may have not a vice in itself? I’m not sure. I have a hard time believing that I’ll ever find complete fulfillment; no matter how much money I make, how much I love my family, how many friends I have, how few illnesses I incur in my life. I have a hard time believing that there won’t always be something that I’ll be a prisoner to, whether it’s something I have or something I long for. Perhaps I’ll just have to see how my life pans out.
15 years ago @ World In Conversation - How do you feel about ... · 0 replies · +1 points
I do think that the question that was brought up about why impoverished people of color are more vocal of their hardships than are poor white people was an interesting one. And I agree with Sam’s answer. I do believe poor white people may feel a greater amount of shame for their lower status than people of color do, making them less likely to call attention to themselves. It is also interesting that it is absolutely socially acceptable, for all races, to make fun of lower class white people. Redneck and white trash are readily used terms, but jokes about poor black people, or Hispanics, or Native Americans, is a no-no. I think I understand why, though. An argument can be made for the idea that whites are to blame for poverty among these minority races. With many years of oppression, violence, and discrimination, whites have created certain inherent obstacles for minorities, and when people of color are successful, they are considered as having “overcome adversity.” Even though whites account for the majority of people living under the poverty line, they are expected to be more successful, therefore, when they aren’t, it becomes a joke.
Despite these realities, poverty is poverty to me. I don’t think color should play a role in how much sympathy is felt. Certain issues have to be colorblind for any improvements to be made.
15 years ago @ World In Conversation - How can we make major ... · 0 replies · +1 points
Also, we, as a society, have accepted our news media as the giver of information. Why should we question it? Why should we ask for a second opinion? Once we get the information from one source that seems to be enough. We have all said, and far too often, “I just heard on news channel X…,” or, “I just read in newspaper Y…,” and too often we accept the information we receive. Why don’t we follow up with additional sources? When we hear something absurd, at least for this day in age, like, “Woman Jailed for Sending Child to White School,” shouldn’t we be questioning what exactly is going on there? The funny thing was, the majority of the class shifted immediately after seeing the second headline. They didn’t even consider the idea that perhaps she was racially discriminated against in a different way, such as he inequality of schools, which often put minority students at the disadvantage.
Maybe another possible reason is that we’re too preoccupied to take much time making decisions. We’re more concerned with the Facebook message we just received, or the text that just came through to be bothered to check the facts. We have so many competing priorities that seem to be more important than ensuring that the assumptions we make and the opinions we formulate are accurate; or at least grounded in arguable evidence.
I’d like to be able to say that I don’t fall into these traps; that somehow I’ve risen above the rest. But who am I kidding? I have some of the same vices as everyone else. I’ve chosen the news sources that I’ve deemed “credible,” and don’t always crosscheck information with other sources. While I don’t normally have much of an issue saying, “I don’t know,” I still try to portray myself as a voice of authority on occasion. And is my time tied down by social networking, the internet, and my iPhone? Yes. I hope there is a happy medium found that will allow people to make more educated decisions.
15 years ago @ World In Conversation - Why Don't We Like Posi... · 0 replies · +1 points
So why wouldn’t people enjoy real life stories involving misfortune of others? People like to feel like they are not the only ones that have life struggles. It also creates water-cooler conversations; people are more likely to have an emotional response to tragedy as opposed to positive situations. People are more likely to gossip about bad news than good. It’s human nature. It may sound weird, but I feel people o prefer to see negative news as opposed to positive news. There may be many reasons for this or just one for some people, but it happens all the time. People are more interested in the negative.
15 years ago @ World In Conversation - Why Don't We Like Posi... · 0 replies · +1 points
Regardless of the sources of news - whether it is local news or cable news networks - the focus tends to be negative. It appears that news producers are more concerned with informing us of human tragedies and catastrophic events, rather than positive stories. This happens for two reasons: the viewers are fed specific things because it pays the networks, and networks fed specific things because that is what the viewers want to see. It is an endless cycle of information. Perhaps it has something to do with the human desire to witness people in circumstances less fortunate than theirs as a coping mechanism. Or perhaps it is the cinematic factor. People enjoy watching movies involving tragedies; it makes for more compelling stories. Have you ever been to a movie where it seems nothing happens and everyone is running around in a field of roses? That is not entertainment; that is boring. There is some kind of human instinct to want to watch tragedy. Take a car accident on the side of the road. Do you stop and look? Of course you do.
15 years ago @ World In Conversation - Why Don't We Like Posi... · 0 replies · +1 points