Immunogirl
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7 years ago @ The Toast - An Open Thread, and Se... · 1 reply · +22 points
Like a female schistosome surrounded by the male, may you always have the spirit of the Toast around you.
I love you all, you weirdos. To the Slack!
7 years ago @ The Toast - Open Thread! · 0 replies · +14 points
7 years ago @ The Toast - Cocktail Hour: Open Th... · 0 replies · +12 points
Nicole, Nikki, Mallory- thank you so much. I'll miss this place like whoa, but FLY FREE.
7 years ago @ The Toast - Cocktail Hour: Open Th... · 2 replies · +6 points
Tomorrow I head off with future in laws, pretty much just so they can meet my dad. My MIL has a conference in a city close to him, so we are going to fly up tomorrow and see him on Sunday. It will probably be fine. I keep telling myself this. My dad will probably be lovely and charming like he always is in small doses.
But the closer that I get to it, the more my anxiety is building. What if he starts in on me about my weight? What if he gets insulted by something I say and starts yelling at me in front of them? What if he says something that I know is a dig but no one else does and I react badly and I look like the worst daughter ever? What if he is great and I get the same crap I always do about "why don't you get along better with your dad, he's great!" Ugh the spiral ugh.
I love my SO's family and I knew it was inevitable, but I really don't want to show them this broken part of me.
7 years ago @ The Toast - Link Roundup! · 9 replies · +6 points
7 years ago @ The Toast - Link Roundup! · 0 replies · +1 points
7 years ago @ The Toast - Link Roundup! · 1 reply · +5 points
I feel kind of weird recommending Lackey, because as an adult I can tell that some of her early works are really not the most well-written. But I loved them as a kid, that didn't matter to me as much. If you've got a really advanced 10 year old they might not work, but they would might be worth a try.
7 years ago @ The Toast - Link Roundup! · 2 replies · +3 points
Also they might necessitate a "when cursing is appropriate" conversation.
7 years ago @ The Toast - Link Roundup! · 2 replies · +5 points
Why is this a thing? Why do I feel like we're being weirdly judged and selfish for NOT wanting presents?
7 years ago @ The Toast - Link Roundup! · 1 reply · +54 points
I think it's more likely that when you have a terrible relationship with a parent you sometimes can't see anything but the past abuses. It's hard to see that this person might have a point about you hurting them. Also maybe stuff got cut for space, but I don't really feel like we have enough information to make a call about whether the mother is capable of caring for the dog or not.