That's quite a...triangle. I personally think it's awkward to date a friend's ex, but to each his own. If you're all friends, there's no reason he can't talk to your friend/his ex. It's just more complicated when you're all connected. You should have considered the risk of losing him as a friend beforehand, but it's too late now. If anything, you may be over analyzing his actions or something's up. If you honestly think something is up, open the convo gently and ask him what's wrong. If he insists there is nothing wrong, take his word for it. I mean you have to trust each other, right? However, if you can read him well and he's lying...then you'll have to deal with that, too. Just don't lose your cool, and use your head a little more in this case. Never be afraid to ask things that are of genuine concern.

Ah moving! Where to? Yeah everyone needs a little time to themselves :) That's what I'm doing right now.

Oh no no! You misunderstood me. I meant for YOU to not go near to being suicidal. Since you've mistaken what I said I'll take it as a good sign x)

Don't worry about what everyone else is asking. It's pretty much a free for all unless someone asks something that's totally bs. Anyway, I can relate. I fall into those phases sometimes. In fact, I'm kind of going through another myself. The lack of motivation thing is hard to overcome when everything seems to be bland or just suck. If you have time, maybe try doing something you love/are passionate for. Then you'd be spending time instead of wasting time. Or even try to learn something new, it could get you hyped up. My father doesn't see eye to eye with me either, in fact pretty much my whole family, but sometimes you gotta go off on your own and learn who you are. Not that I'm telling you to rebel, but this is the time for self-discovery and that includes doing what you enjoy. If your father fails to accept that or realize that, then it's unfortunate for him. He'll be missing out on your growth. Otherwise you're only living that bittersweet life on the bitter side. If you don't find yourself you'll live in misery. I mean in the end we only have ourselves, so what do you have if you're lost? Life may not seem like it's going anywhere for now, but when you get out into the world you may be doing more. Or you could take action and venture out there. It's up to you to either wait 'til you get out, or if you're impatient do something now. Get back to me on what you'll decide to do :) PS: don't even touch the brim of suicide, it's a dark place.

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First off, often we can't deny our feelings because they're there. Even if we're not ready for a new relationship or anything, it doesn't mean we have to push the feelings away, too. Sometimes they're there for a reason, perhaps a good reason and should pursue it eventually. Sometimes. Relationship's one thing, feelings are another, just don't feel pressured to do something about it when you're not ready :).

That's...quite the predicament. Your ex was a complete dick (excuse me) to pull that shit on you. If he was mature and had any courtesy, he could've at least broken up with you in your presence and vamoose rather than send a worthless. That and he owed you a valid reason, or any reason at all really. That was a low blow, and since it was out of the blue I would understand why it still pains you now. However, we don't always get the closure we need from the other person to move on. It's unfortunate that the other person usually doesn't realize or are too selfish to care, they just want it over and done with. That being said, you have to close the doors on your own and enjoy what you have now. For yourself and for your current/future relationships.

I've experienced being with someone who was in your predicament, and their pain became my pain. I felt insignificant due to their lack of faith in me/us when I was trying to be the best partner I could be. I also cared for him a lot, loved him a lot, but the remnants of his ex was just overpowering. So if the guy you're with has sincere feelings for you and cares for you then he's probably getting some negative feedback from you which will hurt him, too, if not already. At the same time, if he knows the cause of all this impatience and such, he could try helping by reassuring you that he means no harm. You both will have to work on nurturing it, but ultimately you have to close the door to the past first. Don't let your past become their past. At least you're aware of why it's happening, and the question is whether you can/will close the door and live.

Awesome! I'm so proud of you!! I think it's a smart move :). Of course I would want to know, and thank you for updating me! You will be okay, if you need to talk you can still come here ^^

Uh that depends on what you would be saying if you took that foot out. If it's something offensive, then keep it in. If it's something you should voice out, then just do it.

I don't see much of a difference though. You get hurt, you get hurt. If the kid isn't bashing their skull in, I don't see how bad the injury can be O.o...haha I wouldn't be surprised...better yet, personal bubbles.

Let's put it into perspective. You both know you deserve more and better. You both don't want to let each other go. So tell me this, if you seem so important to him, then why doesn't he leave the other person? If anything HE has to make a choice. You, on the other hand, HAVE to let it go for your own good if he doesn't make a choice. If someone truly loves you, they should love only you. If not to the ideal full extent, you could wait...but in this case what exactly are you waiting for? I can tell you to walk away all I want, but it's up to you to be strong enough to do it. You know it's not good for you