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<title>Anisa Aven&#039;s Conscious Leadership &amp; the Law of Attraction. : What to do when the BONUS check doesn&#039;t come?!?</title>
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<description>I&amp;#039;m so glad it came at just the right time, Patricia!  </description>
<pubDate>Thu, 4 Oct 2012 15:07:30 +0000</pubDate>
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<title>Anisa Aven&#039;s Conscious Leadership &amp; the Law of Attraction. : Am I really addicted to negative emotions and negative thoughts? </title>
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<description>Thank you, Roxanne.  I am on this path with you... constantly asking for help for higher and better states of conscious growth. :) I love the prayer... think I&amp;#039;ll do that now as well.  Much love and light, Anisa </description>
<pubDate>Fri, 27 Jan 2012 13:05:06 +0000</pubDate>
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<title>Anisa Aven&#039;s Conscious Leadership &amp; the Law of Attraction. : How do I know if I&#039;m visualizing correctly? </title>
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<description>Hi there, I&amp;#039;m so glad you enjoyed it!  The link to rsvp for Dr. Jean Houston&amp;#039;s presentation is &lt;a href=&quot;http://bit.ly/nEJZwu&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;http://bit.ly/nEJZwu&lt;/a&gt;   I look forward to connecting with you next week. Create a great weekend! Anisa  </description>
<pubDate>Sat, 20 Aug 2011 12:37:23 +0000</pubDate>
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<description>Hi there, I&amp;#39;m so glad you enjoyed it!� The link to rsvp for Dr. Jean Houston&amp;#39;s presentation is &lt;a href=&quot;http://bit.ly/nEJZwu�&lt;br&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;http://bit.ly/nEJZwu�&lt;br&lt;/a&gt; /&gt;I look forward to connecting with you next week. Create a great weekend! Anisa </description>
<pubDate>Sat, 20 Aug 2011 12:37:03 +0000</pubDate>
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<title>Anisa Aven&#039;s Conscious Leadership &amp; the Law of Attraction. : How to Create a Commited State (One that Will Help You GET MORE of What You Want!) </title>
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<description>HI Juila! That&amp;#039;s weird it&amp;#039;s shows up on mine with a the player!  Here&amp;#039;s another way to access the recording: &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.byoaudio.com/play/WxxfkRTK&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;http://www.byoaudio.com/play/WxxfkRTK&lt;/a&gt;  -- that one works for me too... hope it does for you!  love and light, Anisa  </description>
<pubDate>Fri, 29 Jul 2011 23:21:52 +0000</pubDate>
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<title>Anisa Aven&#039;s Conscious Leadership &amp; the Law of Attraction. : How the brutal attack on my father caused a spiritual awakening for me.</title>
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<description>Thank you, Kelly.  It took me a while to figure out what was really happening - inside - for me, so I have had to re-read it myself! :)  By the way, I love your &lt;a href=&quot;http://inspirationalplanning.com/&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;http://inspirationalplanning.com/&lt;/a&gt; site - your system for managing our intentions, goals, and tasks is just brilliant.   Thank you again for your kind words.  Much love and light, Anisa  </description>
<pubDate>Wed, 13 Jul 2011 15:43:21 +0000</pubDate>
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<description>Thank you, Valerie. :) love and light, Anisa  </description>
<pubDate>Wed, 13 Jul 2011 15:39:10 +0000</pubDate>
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<title>Anisa Aven&#039;s Conscious Leadership &amp; the Law of Attraction. : Lessons in Detachment: 4 of 10 People Do the Best They Can</title>
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<description>Hi Karen,   This is a great question.  In my experience, attempting to counsel someone who is used to blaming themselves for their abuse or used to forgiving their partner with words such as, &amp;quot;they are doing the best they can&amp;quot; with &amp;#039;no they are not&amp;quot; doesn&amp;#039;t work.  I have found that if we attempt to make them wrong and say, &amp;quot;your partner is abusive and dysfunctional and you need to wake up and get out&amp;quot;, often they will dismiss the very help we are hoping to provide.  The victim feels as though we do not understand their situation and therefore they cannot trust our advice.  On the other hand, if we align with them by saying, &amp;quot;Yes, you are right.  They are doing the best they can.  And, you deserve better.  Your are a beautiful, amazing, loving, and worthy person that deserves to be happy and well cared for....&amp;quot;   They are more likely to open to this because suddenly we understand them.      From there, it&amp;#039;s a matter of helping them to gain the self-esteem required to realize they cannot change the other person but they can make a choice that honors themselves.      Thank you so much for engaging in this important conversation.  Much love and light, Anisa </description>
<pubDate>Sun, 27 Feb 2011 11:24:45 +0000</pubDate>
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<description>Hi Nancy,  Thank you for your kind words and question.  The law of allowing is another way of saying the law of detachment.  When we let go and allow the process of life to carry us along, we are are allowing.  By allowing instead of fighting, we can more easily direct our course and have greater influence on what we experience (thus enacting the law of attraction.) :)  </description>
<pubDate>Sun, 27 Feb 2011 11:18:17 +0000</pubDate>
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<title>Anisa Aven&#039;s Conscious Leadership &amp; the Law of Attraction. : How to Identify Those Pesky Limiting Beliefs </title>
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<description>My pleasure. :)  </description>
<pubDate>Wed, 17 Nov 2010 12:21:56 +0000</pubDate>
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<title>Anisa Aven&#039;s Conscious Leadership &amp; the Law of Attraction. : Is a Linchpin Holding Your Limiting Beliefs in Place </title>
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<description>This is a great quote! Thank you for taking a moment to share with us.   I couldn&amp;#039;t agree more.  Our point of attraction is RIGHT now - so what are we thinking and feeling in this moment?    I find that some issues just linger too long as a result of my inability to let go of my past conditioning.  Thus, if something is a recurring theme and I attempt to change my &amp;#039;moment to moment&amp;#039; vibration and just fail, then I will go back into my past to see where I may have made that limiting decision.    For example, I have a friend that has this belief that when he acknowledges good things, for example when his wife or children do something right, people stop doing it.  So, he refuses to acknowledge their successes or pat them on the back when they make good choices or contribute positively.  Thus, they feel they are not appreciated or getting the recognition (or love in the case of his children and wife) they crave from him.  While he feels that he is protecting them from negative &amp;#039;change&amp;#039; by not acknowledging their positive behavior, he&amp;#039;s coming to realize that he&amp;#039;s neglecting their emotional needs by NOT stroking them a little when they do something right.   As he recounts his life, he has plenty of stories to back-up this belief.  He shared with me stories of his past girlfriends who he gave positive accolades to who ended up cheating on him, etc.  He even has the memory of being kind to his brother and saying/thinking something positive only to be beaten up (sibling fight) by him.   He&amp;#039;s been unable to shift in the moment.  He made a decision just recently to work on his childhood and when he first took on the belief, &amp;quot;when I say something positive, people stop doing the thing I acknowledge&amp;quot;.  The jury is still out about the results, but I have a good feeling he&amp;#039;s on the way to shifting it in a positive direction.     Thanks again for sharing the Abraham quote  and let us know how it goes!   love and light, Anisa    </description>
<pubDate>Wed, 8 Sep 2010 12:04:37 +0000</pubDate>
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<description>Thank you Simone for your kind words and compassion.  I also appreciate you sharing your idea - what a great EFT exercise.   You may already know this but you are using NLP with your EFT!  NLP (neuro-linquistics programming) is super powerful all by itself but I&amp;#039;ve found that when I combine it with EFT, for example as you have, shifts happen even faster.    If a person is visual, they can &amp;#039;SEE&amp;#039; those hooks latching onto the other beliefs lurking in the corners of their mind/heart.  If they are more auditory, they might try &amp;#039;hearing&amp;#039; the clacking sound that a hook makes when it catches onto another belief.  If they are more kinesthetic, then it might be more of a feeling that occurs when the hook has taken hold.    I tried your exercise and loved it.    As a primarily visual learner with a back-up kinesthetic style, I used colors. I imagine a misty, white colored hook (it&amp;#039;s a bit ethereal, transparent, and the texture of a cloud) slowly rummaging through my &amp;#039;negative beliefs&amp;#039;, latching onto the issues/beliefs as they reminded me of my &amp;#039;need to be right&amp;#039; - which are RED.  I tapped on the &amp;#039;red beliefs&amp;#039; until I felt a shift.  Then I implanted (tapped in the positive) using the color sky blue, removing any and all remaining red beliefs and replacing them with &amp;#039;sky blue&amp;#039; beliefs which are compassion, acceptance, allowing others to have their opinion, etc.   Ahhhh.... so much fun to shift!   Thanks again and create a fantastic day,  Anisa  </description>
<pubDate>Wed, 8 Sep 2010 11:47:11 +0000</pubDate>
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<title>Anisa Aven&#039;s Conscious Leadership &amp; the Law of Attraction. : I Feel Guilty for Having So Much When So Many Are Suffering </title>
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<description>Hello Graham,  Beautifully said!  Thank you! I LOVE the course in miracles quote and find it very affirming.   Thank you. I also agree that when no structure exists, it may be up to &amp;quot;me&amp;quot; to become the source of a new opening for the change.  And, sometimes that simply means holding the vision for that opening through &amp;quot;Conscious Creation Activism&amp;quot;.    I agree also that we must take care of our personal needs and stay connected to the flow in order to make a difference.  If we are starving (emotionally/physically etc.) then we cannot lift others.  Our first order of business is to heal the disconnection that would cause our personal hunger, then share this with others.   Much love and light, Anisa  (And, as always - I love your hugs from across the Pond, my friend!)  </description>
<pubDate>Tue, 3 Aug 2010 12:59:36 +0000</pubDate>
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<description>Thank you, Isabel.  I am in prayer with you right now.  Thank you for bringing this situation to our attention.  And, the Russian President is echoing what we are discussing here - on the official Kremlin Twitter page the Russian President wrote &amp;quot;this is our shared calamity. Nobody should stand on the sidelines.&amp;quot; much love and light, Anisa  </description>
<pubDate>Tue, 3 Aug 2010 12:51:46 +0000</pubDate>
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<description>Yes, great idea, Rosa.  Thank you! Create a great day, Anisa  </description>
<pubDate>Tue, 3 Aug 2010 12:44:50 +0000</pubDate>
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<description>Hello Richard, Thank you.  Thank you for taking a moment to acknowledge and confirm that my intention to make a difference, be authentic, and provide value is coming forth.  Much love and light, Anisa  </description>
<pubDate>Tue, 3 Aug 2010 12:44:17 +0000</pubDate>
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<description>Hello Kathleen,  Thank you for sharing this example.  I know many will be able to resonate and see their situation in your words.  I know it&amp;#039;s so hard to &amp;#039;evolve&amp;#039; when we were in the middle of such comfort.  But, that&amp;#039;s exactly what millions are going to be called to do.  Industry and the way we spend our money is changing so fast that those that are now employed simply are not going to have the long-term &amp;#039;comfort&amp;#039; and &amp;#039;security&amp;#039; that they thought they were working towards.  Instead, I believe we have to be prepared to diversify, prepared to take on courageously second, third, fourth, and tenth careers as the global economy, in its unstoppable turn, changes everything about how the game is played.   Congratulations for maintaining your focus on what YOU wanted in spite of what they were saying all around you.  Well done!  Ha ha :) Thank you too for the laugh --- &amp;quot;My son found this out about girlfriends!&amp;quot;  Oh.. how true!  Much love and light, Anisa  </description>
<pubDate>Tue, 3 Aug 2010 12:42:25 +0000</pubDate>
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<description>Hello Maria, Thank you.  It means so much to me to know the work I do is meaningful and making a difference.  I so appreciate you sharing.  Yes, indeed the world is a perfect place and we have chosen to be here at this time to co-create Heaven on Earth! Love and light, Anisa  </description>
<pubDate>Tue, 3 Aug 2010 12:36:59 +0000</pubDate>
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<description>HI Lulu,  I like what you say about &amp;quot;working together towards changing whole cultures&amp;quot; - this is spot-on .... together it&amp;#039;s time to change our global patriarchal, reactive culture, our collective fears, our addiction to &amp;quot;passing the buck&amp;quot; and our personal, familial cultures back into cultures where community is a priority and heart-centered innovations are the first response... so many opportunities for transformation.  Our work is to pick one and begin it.  Lots of love and light, Anisa  </description>
<pubDate>Tue, 3 Aug 2010 12:34:00 +0000</pubDate>
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<description>Thank you, Valery, for sharing.  I believe &amp;#039;aligned&amp;#039; giving is important and following our intuition consistently will support us in fulfilling our collective purpose. Thanks again! - Anisa  </description>
<pubDate>Tue, 3 Aug 2010 12:26:12 +0000</pubDate>
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