Television and the government used to encourage us with shows life "Family Matters" "Growing Pains" "Who's the Boss" "Happy Days" etc... They modeled through televisions strong families. If you watch tv today....its about selfishness and pleasing oneself and individualism. Shows like sex in city, desperate housewives, nip tuck, two an half men etc. This is where we as the american people have lost something great. This is where our nation is heading. Is regressing morally, not progressing. We can't fix the everyone else, but we can start by fixing ourselves and creating strong families again that are solid with moral foundations based on truth, not selfish truth. If you agree with me give me a shout out on this chat. I would appreciate it.

In all we do we have a choice. There's always a choice. We blame others for our bad actions. We dont take responsibility anymore. We become cowardly in way. Decisions is an ability we have been given by God to use to please Him or ourselves. Yes we should think about our children....in doing that we are being unselfish. Its a decision! Overall, if we make the mistake we have to live with it and so does everyone and unfortunately theres too many mistakes going on which tells me and everyone theres a crack in the foundation of family life which we as americans have lost over the past 20 years.

The system of having 1 spouse is flawless and was designed for success. Having the same mom and dad under one roof bearing children and creating generations of success is the blueprint for a prosperous future. Modeling solid family life for your children is key. Its what makes strong communities and strong cities and a strong nation overall. We on the other hand my african american male friend have an imperfect nature. We all have the ability to discipline ourselves or just allow our selfishness to rule over us and that my friend is where infedility,cheating and the worse of ourselves are revealed. We have all had the ugly show us up at times. It even scares us afterwards when we finally see what we are capable of.