Hi Jeremiah

Please double check you have done the following.

Upload a 16x16 image named favicon.ico into,
1. Your theme's main folder
2. Your blog's main directory

Copy my code above, and overwrite the existing code in the header.php file, then save it (see above screenshot)

(I have now updated my post to include) Empty your browser's cache..

Restart your browser

That is all that is needed. Your favicon should now appear.

Thanks Graeme.. yes I'm on Twitter - http://twitter.com/matthewtommasi

Looks like your site has some useful information too! I'll be checking that out.

Make sure you have followed the instructions exactly.

Check you have done the following,
1. Obtained an API Key from a WP.com account
2. Enabled xmlrpc on your self-hosted site
3. Add your self-hosted site to YouTube, as per my instructions above
4. Choose a video to post to your site, then Post to Blog

If you have done all of this correctly, then the video will appear almost straight away.