en-us http://www.intensedebate.com/users/296202 Comments by filthylucre http://www.filthylucre.com/married-men-and-prostitutes#IDComment167274778 Why would you sue her? They entered an agreement, she kept up her side, and he paid. If he spent money that you feel was rightfully yours, sue him. Mon, 27 Jun 2011 19:12:24 +0000 http://www.filthylucre.com/married-men-and-prostitutes#IDComment167274778 http://www.filthylucre.com/complaints-mdvip-dr-michael-mall#IDComment167274504 Hey dipshit, I did try to pay. Read the post. Mon, 27 Jun 2011 19:11:26 +0000 http://www.filthylucre.com/complaints-mdvip-dr-michael-mall#IDComment167274504 http://www.filthylucre.com/sasha-grey-marina-hantzis#IDComment128160183 Not to argue that there is no risk of orally transmitted STD's, but HIV is rarely transmitted orally. Tue, 15 Feb 2011 20:18:09 +0000 http://www.filthylucre.com/sasha-grey-marina-hantzis#IDComment128160183 http://www.filthylucre.com/complaints-mdvip-dr-michael-mall#IDComment117051381 Of course Bruce, the problem with our health care is the illegals. We need to take care of "our own". Right. I'm going to go out on a limb here and say that Bruce just might be one of those right wing assholes that spend their time worrying about "anchor baby's" and stupid shit like that. Illegals are not the problem with our health care industry. Tue, 21 Dec 2010 00:22:44 +0000 http://www.filthylucre.com/complaints-mdvip-dr-michael-mall#IDComment117051381 http://www.filthylucre.com/married-men-and-prostitutes#IDComment91800451 First, I would have to ask why you\\\'re sharing anything about this with your 3-year-old daughter? All she would need to know is that he is living somewhere else for a short time. There is not reason to lessen her respect for her father for the sake of making you feel better. I can\\\'t imagine the damage you have done to this girl. I\\\'m sorry if I seem judgmental on this, I usually try to sympathize with the wife who has been cheated on, but telling a 3-year-old girl that her father is someone who can\\\'t be trusted...you might as well get her a pole to practice on, and an abusive alcoholic to start dating. Second, if you\\\'re husband is really going through all this to make himself better, then maybe you should consider putting some effort in yourself. There is not doubt that he is the one who screwed this up, but it will take both of you to save the marriage. Mon, 9 Aug 2010 19:30:20 +0000 http://www.filthylucre.com/married-men-and-prostitutes#IDComment91800451 http://www.filthylucre.com/is-my-husband-seeing-prostitutes#IDComment86851167 Thanks for sharing that with us. At the risk of getting everyone pissed at me, I have to side with the hooker on this one. Why should she be out any legal fees when the husband was lying? I assume that since you worked it out with the husband, he helped pay the fees? I would say he\\\'s lucky she didn\\\'t sue for other damages since he directly lied to her. However lose the arrangement, it was an agreement between two people that involved money. How long ago was this? Thu, 15 Jul 2010 21:38:26 +0000 http://www.filthylucre.com/is-my-husband-seeing-prostitutes#IDComment86851167 http://www.filthylucre.com/is-my-husband-seeing-prostitutes#IDComment86508590 Jeff, I\\\'m not sure why you would post this. Regardless of the urges a man has, the impact to the spouse of someone cheating is the same. It leaves the other person feeling that they are unworthy in someway. And the lies that come with the cheating are not any less severe simply because guys get horny. I agree that guys cheat for different reasons. And I even agree with you that when women cheat it is much more about the relationship. When guys cheat, it\\\'s often just because they have an urge to, or they have the opportunity. And hopefully sharing this with these women will help take away some of the sting. But to suggest men as less accountable for their actions is just wrong. Tue, 13 Jul 2010 17:28:16 +0000 http://www.filthylucre.com/is-my-husband-seeing-prostitutes#IDComment86508590 http://www.filthylucre.com/brickwork-india-%e2%80%93-just-more-of-the-same#IDComment86507963 At this point I don\\\'t know why anyone would go offshore for this type of help. There are so many people here who need the work, you should be able to find talented American\\\'s that are happy to work for the same amount that Brickwork or GetFriday charge. Simply post a job listing on Craigslist and start interviewing people. You can go local, or go a state with a lower income. Either way you end up with someone who can easily be on the same timezone as you, and speaks english clearly. We are in the middle of one of the worst financial crisis to ever hit the United States. The best thing you can do is to put more American\\\'s back to work. Hire as many as you can afford. Tue, 13 Jul 2010 17:24:30 +0000 http://www.filthylucre.com/brickwork-india-%e2%80%93-just-more-of-the-same#IDComment86507963 http://www.filthylucre.com/is-my-husband-seeing-prostitutes#IDComment85170508 I don\\\'t think contacting people in her life is really going to make you feel any better. Right now you have done nothing to be ashamed of; why not keep it that way? The high road is lonely, but it feels better in the end. Hopefully you can at least take your husband to the cleaners. Tue, 6 Jul 2010 19:27:44 +0000 http://www.filthylucre.com/is-my-husband-seeing-prostitutes#IDComment85170508 http://www.filthylucre.com/is-my-husband-seeing-prostitutes#IDComment85154563 Maggie, first you have to chill out a bit. No one doubts that you\\\'re upset, but I think your anger should be more at your husband. If it wasn\\\'t this girl, it would have been someone else. Harming this woman will not make your husband less of a pig. Now if you wanted to hurt a prostitute, you should focus on their income. Many men, maybe even your husband, check reviews for prostitutes at websites like TheEroticReview.Net, or BigDoggie. If you look for \\\"escort reviews\\\" in Google, you\\\'ll find a few places to check out. If you\\\'re husband, or any other person, had a bad experience with an escort, then this would be the place to post that info. A few bad reviews can drive an escort out of business. Obviously you want to make sure these are not false reviews. Just encourage people who have had a bad experience with the woman to post their review on the websites. Tue, 6 Jul 2010 17:22:27 +0000 http://www.filthylucre.com/is-my-husband-seeing-prostitutes#IDComment85154563 http://www.filthylucre.com/complaints-mdvip-dr-michael-mall#IDComment80854085 I see. I made an ass of myself because you were more mistreated than I. If you read the post, I simply did as I was told to do by the doctors office, and was then denied treatment when I returned because of their own internal misunderstanding of the program. So I had to go to another doctor. I\\\'m not sure how that constitutes trying to \\\"get away with something\\\". I paid for the visit in full. But I do think you\\\'re an ass. Fri, 18 Jun 2010 19:42:35 +0000 http://www.filthylucre.com/complaints-mdvip-dr-michael-mall#IDComment80854085 http://www.filthylucre.com/married-men-and-prostitutes#IDComment80323197 Sounds like a good move to leave his ass. If he\\\'s just going to lie about it, what\\\'s the point? Find someone better. BTW, your accents are hot over there! You would have no problem in this country finding a new guy. Tue, 15 Jun 2010 23:29:21 +0000 http://www.filthylucre.com/married-men-and-prostitutes#IDComment80323197 http://www.filthylucre.com/married-men-and-prostitutes#IDComment80302421 Mary - Sorry to hear about your bf. I would say that if he is just going to lie about the issue, then you don\\\'t have much choice buy to leave him. Did he have anything honest to say about the whole thing? Tue, 15 Jun 2010 21:22:13 +0000 http://www.filthylucre.com/married-men-and-prostitutes#IDComment80302421 http://www.filthylucre.com/married-men-and-prostitutes#IDComment80228859 Wow, you are in a very bad mood. Tue, 15 Jun 2010 09:50:01 +0000 http://www.filthylucre.com/married-men-and-prostitutes#IDComment80228859 http://www.filthylucre.com/married-men-and-prostitutes#IDComment80072880 Linda, I don\\\'t know what to tell you here. Obviously if your husband is having sex with tranny hookers you have good reason to expect that he\\\'s gay. Either way I don\\\'t see the point of staying with the guy. As hard as it may be, time to pack up and move on, or send him packing. At least you truly know it\\\'s not you. Mon, 14 Jun 2010 10:27:29 +0000 http://www.filthylucre.com/married-men-and-prostitutes#IDComment80072880 http://www.filthylucre.com/is-my-husband-seeing-prostitutes#IDComment78164163 That really sucks. I\\\'m glad to hear you\\\'re standing up for yourself and not letting him get away with all this. It\\\'s bad enough to cheat with hookers, but even worse to drive your family broke for it. When you say a woman in Russia, do you mean a Russian women here, or is he actually going to see prostitutes in Russia? Wed, 2 Jun 2010 06:25:32 +0000 http://www.filthylucre.com/is-my-husband-seeing-prostitutes#IDComment78164163 http://www.filthylucre.com/is-my-husband-seeing-prostitutes#IDComment77657413 Sandy - I agree with you. This may be horrible to say, but I think we see why TrudyKay\\\'s husband was unhappy. Imagine living with this woman! Sat, 29 May 2010 19:57:04 +0000 http://www.filthylucre.com/is-my-husband-seeing-prostitutes#IDComment77657413 http://www.filthylucre.com/is-my-husband-seeing-prostitutes#IDComment77308652 Trudy, chill out. There is no reason to get on her case. Let the woman vent about her husband if she wants. Also, since the hooker lists her own number on websites, I doubt she\\\'s that concerned about it being anywhere else online. Thu, 27 May 2010 10:13:42 +0000 http://www.filthylucre.com/is-my-husband-seeing-prostitutes#IDComment77308652 http://www.filthylucre.com/is-my-husband-seeing-prostitutes#IDComment76918974 You should should be able to get an itemized copy of the bill if you know the credit card it was booked under. Either tell the hotel that you\\\'re with the company paying for the hotel, or have a man call and say he\\\'s your husband and wants to review the bill for errors. Mon, 24 May 2010 17:22:54 +0000 http://www.filthylucre.com/is-my-husband-seeing-prostitutes#IDComment76918974 http://www.filthylucre.com/is-my-husband-seeing-prostitutes#IDComment75913737 Sandy, sorry to hear about your husband. Obviously he screwed up. Have you actually confronted him yet? Tue, 18 May 2010 03:23:36 +0000 http://www.filthylucre.com/is-my-husband-seeing-prostitutes#IDComment75913737