Thanks! Happy to help (but you should see the hatemail from men in my email inbox... lol. You can find out more about my book The Problem with Women... is Men here >>http://www.amazon.com/Problem-Women-Men-Evolution...

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@Candy Precisely. Note that this is the majority (read: some women cheat for physical reasons, some men for emotional). But this fits the vast majority.

Hi Marco. Thanks for posting. No drone here. :)

Not sure why I need to "wake up". If you've read my blog cover-to-cover, you'd know that I'm not looking to rip my soul apart. Rather, I'm looking to help improve the quality and equality in relationships. Nothing more.

@Abdul - It's "feminist" to want a person—man or woman—to honor their promises?

Haji: Great piece... and insights. I wrote a similar (but tongue-in cheek) article on this topic for BettyConfidential: http://www.bettyconfidential.com/ar/ld/a/Why-Porn...

@Mack No... you've missed the point. As far as blame: cheating (regardless if the cheater is a man or a woman) is the CHEATER'S fault. Too many men blame other things... and too many women blame "the other woman".

What I was discussing here is the motivations for cheating in the first place.