When you have a clue about kids, grammar, spelling and writing without constant swearing to get your point across, and the balls to do it openly and not anonymously, by all means then come back and post.

But just for the record, I do discipline my kids by spanking when it's necessary. I was having a very bad day that day, I was 8 months pregnant and very tired and I never take my bad mood out on my kids. You obviously didn't read the reason I allowed them to go to the party and you also make assumptions that are wrong. I didn't send them to their room as I agree it doesn't achieve anything, but I also don't smack first without giving them a chance to curb their behaviour first.