en-us http://www.intensedebate.com/users/620106 Comments by Maaike http://offbeatbride.com/2009/08/involving-your-groom#IDComment31019959 For me the advice is not yet needed, mostly because with us, my boyfriend and I, there is nothing I decide without him or vice versa. Maybe I make a few more phonecalls than he does, but mostly we are in it together. Can it change, sure since there is a year between now and our small and intimate day. But I will keep this post of advice in mind if things will shift. Mon, 17 Aug 2009 14:20:44 +0000 http://offbeatbride.com/2009/08/involving-your-groom#IDComment31019959