Definitively speaking, there are no clear, concise answers to the questions posed. The "what would Jesus do" application is probably the only address that would allow a dialogue in and through a situation and it is our continuous re-interpretation of Scripture along this basis that keeps the name of Jesus Christ relevant in todays changing world. Just Do It.
I would be very interested to hear more of the comments made throughout the presentation as well as your own conclusions. This is a good opening for all of us to address these issues-keep the dialogue going-share as much as you can.